Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

You know what, one of the worst things in the world is when you're at the

grocery store and you're buying one thing and you realize that you had

chosen the wrong line if you're watching the line that you were

going to stand in move super fast and you see the person you were in front of

now basically walking out the door as you stand in this

line and the person in front of you or maybe five people in front of you is now having a

meaningful conversation with the checker.

The checker has now become her therapist and you're just standing there and no one has the

audacity to stop the conversation so they're just chatting away and you're just sitting there

with this one item that you're trying to buy. Anyway, that is definitely not the

worst thing in the world. If you think it is, then you need to reboot

and gain a fresh perspective on what is the real struggle.

Okay, so the greatest tool I think in life, one of the greatest tools. I think there are many, but today I think one of the greatest tools and I thought about this on the on my motorcycle ride home this morning. It's the ability, I'm going to my motorcycle ride home this morning.

It's the ability,

I'm purposely dragging this out, because I know that you are anticipating what is this

fucker gonna say I'm pulling what I call a guns and roses just arriving really late to the show on purpose. It's the ability to

observe. Now hold on. It's the ability to observe. Now hold on. It's not just noticing and observing what's around you and other people.

Let me explain the power of observation or the ability to observe.

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