Hey guys, if you're not a member of the street cop community, you are missing out.

It is where you can find all the e-books and all the resources that I put out to help you do your job better. Check it out at streetcop community or streetcop.com. Just look for the link there and we'll see you inside the community. Mathematically, that's true, right? You think about that hardcore person that's been in their life, they've been them for as long as they can remember, right?

And so when they play that role and they got to be that person and then pretty soon, like I said, that container gets filled and you're like, oh shit, what I do now? Everybody's expectations are that I'm going to be this person, that I'm going to show up a particular way, right? and all of a sudden they go, oh no, I got to fix something because this, this lane ain't working for me anymore. I need to switch lanes. You said before when people are like, hey, why don't you, why aren't you hanging out with us anymore? Why aren't you doing this? Like, what's wrong? You're too good for that or whatever? you're going to get that internal voice telling you that you're doing something wrong

when you start to reach out for services or stuff like that.

That's completely normal. that internal voice telling you that you're doing something wrong when you start to reach out

for services or stuff like that that's completely normal right that internal voice telling you

hey man suck it up pussy you just got to you got to get through this and when you go to reach

out for those services and you think about the people that are talking shit about you not being

this guy anymore you have to remember

that you're doing it for yourself, not to anybody else. Just because it's uncomfortable, doesn't

mean you're doing something wrong. Four is greater than two is a reminder that when you start

realizing that you need to do something differently, you're doing it for yourself.

Hey guys, welcome this episode to the street cop training podcast.

You're host, founder and CEO of Street Cop Training.

My name is Dennis Benino.

And we have back a guest that, Don, I don't know if you know this, but I think it was our most listened to episode. It had like insane virality,

like chart topping crazy. Did you know that? I did not. No, I didn't. What's funny is I look back at some of the comments people were making and I was like, okay, that's kind of funny. These people are really clever. What was some of the comments people were making? Oh, it's funny. The thing you got to realize about communication is like playing catch with a baseball, right? There's the way it's thrown and the way it's caught. I was actively chuckling when somebody asked me if I'd got my degree from DeVry

University. I was like, yeah, yeah, I did. That was pretty good. How'd you know? It's right next to

refrigeration. You know, it's interesting. I have to think that your heat's not working in your house. Is that accurate? It is cold, yes. That is correct. And it's been like, exceptionally cold. Well, it's, in Northern California, you wouldn't think it would be that cold, but it has been in the, consistently in the 40s lately, which for Californians

might as well be the Arctic Circle. Yeah, apparently. And you know, it's funny, I was outside

today in 30 degree weather, no bullshit. 30 degree weather, shorts only, walking around,

doing some stuff in my backyard. Pool guys were here to show off the one

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