EP02: Wants and Needs, Saying the Hard Thing, and How Your Parents Loved You
This Changes Everything with Sarah Rice
Sarah Rice - Wave Podcast Network
4.6 • 884 Ratings
🗓️ 1 September 2022
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Sarah's a happy camper, literally, and Jeff doesn't get what's so great about sleeping in the dirt. Sarah claims camping is a great way to see a different side of your partner–for better or worse. Sarah and Jeff talk about the importance of understanding and articulating wants and needs in any healthy relationship, but what happens when you realize you and your partner want and need different things? As Jeff says this week, "The cliché is true: relationships are hard work, but how hard should they be?" Apparently, how your parents loved you when you were a child has a lot to do with how you love others as an adult. In fact, the first two months of life are the most important when it comes to being a securely attached, emotionally intelligent adult. Sarah's mom carried her constantly for the first few months of her life, which Sarah claims is the reason she isn't a serial killer. Sarah reminds us that even though our coping and survival strategies can become our superpowers, "Batman can't be Batman all the time."
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| 0:00.0 | Hello friends this is Sarah Rice and therapy Jeff back with episode 2 of this |
| 0:07.7 | changes everything. I'm doing really good before we get into it though actually |
| 0:11.9 | so I'm like a I'm a fan of your Instagram account. |
| 0:17.5 | Oh, oh, yeah, everybody should go false and I yours |
| 0:20.4 | slash jayton I noticed that you camp a lot a lot a lot like you're really really into |
| 0:29.2 | camping and one of the I think one of our main differences is I am so not. |
| 0:35.0 | I am not, not, like there's sort of like, I, and I always like tell people like, |
| 0:40.0 | you know what, the next time you go camping really check in with yourself like are you |
| 0:44.8 | comfortable sleeping on the ground because that fucking sucks would you rather like be in a |
| 0:50.0 | bad or a luxurious hotel, right? |
| 0:53.7 | Doesn't it kind of like suck that you're like in a tent |
| 0:56.2 | and it's really hot or it's really cold |
| 0:58.1 | or it's like, are you gonna get eaten by a bear? |
| 1:00.5 | And you have to like, |
| 1:01.6 | all of the above, and hike, and you're just sweating the whole time when in like you could just be |
| 1:07.0 | like sitting on your couch watching TV being really comfy so when you so do you actually enjoy it because it looks like from |
| 1:17.4 | all your photos you do but like you do it's insane it's insane I don't know you know this is what I've learned over the years though |
| 1:27.0 | you do have to |
| 1:30.4 | spend the money on the good gear. |
| 1:34.0 | It's worth it. |
| 1:36.0 | It was a game changer when I got a super good sleeping bag that has like cushiony, like's like designed to I don't keep you |
| 1:45.4 | warm and everything like that it's good to negative or like zero degrees it comes with a |
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