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We are in the second episode of a new series on dealing with hurt from the church, dealing with pain in the church.

And last week's episode, we talked a bit about just like an introduction. We talked about

boundaries, how we overcome some of the basic principles of having relationships in the church, right?

They were called to love one another, but that love has to be, has to be with wisdom, right?

A lot of people, you know, it sounds easy to love people at first glance. It's like, oh yeah,

just be kind, be nice to people. But I talked about how being

nice and kind is really not the, not the core of it. Is that an element for sure? But it's not

the core of it. To be a loving person is really to have a resilient love, right, a love that's

able to love people who are really broken, right, who have major weaknesses, who sin against us,

right? And that requires that we have wisdom in dealing with them, how to have boundaries,

where we can trust people. We're going to talk more about that today, okay? But I want to start

off this episode by saying that it is really important

that we heal. Okay. And I'm speaking to, you know, believers in general, but people in general. It's very

important that we heal our emotional wounds. Okay. The nature of how this works is that when we're

wounded emotionally, we go through a period of processing afterwards.

And that period of processing is really important.

And what naturally happens for all of us is we, our hearts need to assign blame.

Okay?

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