Okay, quick question. Which type of person are you? Are you the type of person when life just does not work out, be it going to university, going to a certain career path or work or moving? I mean, you've made those life plans and they are clearly not going to happen the way you wanted them to.

Are you the type of person that is going to force it anyway?

I mean, make it happen, you know, sink or swim.

You know, I'm going to make it happen because I said that's the way it's going to be and you decide that that's what you want and you pursue it almost blindly.

Are you the type of person that when things just don't go as planned, you take it super

personal?

You might even list to yourself a long list of all your inadequacies and beat yourself up until

you're in a place that you're just really, really sad, depressed, and alone even.

Well, no matter how you handle Qadr, yes, that's what I'm talking about,

Qadr, how Allah, Siphanu, and Allah wills for us something that we don't necessarily want

or have planned for ourselves.

You know, there's a way we can handle it a bit more gracefully, and yes, we'd all love

to say we were that good Muslim

when things don't go our way that we just say al-hambi-il-la

and we accept it and we move on.

But that's not the case for many of us.

But we want to get to that place.

The place of the Quran and sunnah tells us to you,

but in our busy modern life,

how do we fit in all that logic

when there's seemingly time for nothing? And how do we kind of get ourselves to accept things

that we can't necessarily accept? We're going to talk about that today, and I'm going to give

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