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Feminist Wellness

Ep #72: Anatomy of an Apology

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 2 July 2020

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Listen in today as I lay out the four steps of apologizing, and how to keep your center when an apology is due. I’ll also be touching on how the thought work protocol ties in here and why being present and getting out of your own way is the key to keeping your sense of self intact and making your relationships stronger in the long-term.

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0:00.0

There is a quiet epidemic I've noticed in my life coaching clients and saw in my patients, particularly my patients with GI issues.

0:10.0

An epidemic of shame and guilt that keeps folks feeling small and from living into our truest power.

0:18.8

That epidemic is summed up in two words. I'm sorry. Yes, my loves, I want to talk to you about

0:27.8

apologies. What apologies are, why we need to apologize and get comfortable doing so, and some of the pitfalls that come from when we apologize out of habit as a knee jerk reaction to discomfort instead of apologizing from our truest

0:45.9

selves who can see pain or harm caused by our actions the impact of our behavior, our words, and seek to repair that harm with humility and love.

0:59.0

Does apologizing feel so cringy, so challenging and scary and uncomfortable, my love?

1:07.2

Is it something you do too easily?

1:09.8

I'm apologizing for having feelings, wants, or needs.

1:14.4

Wherever you land on that spectrum,

1:16.9

I know there's something helpful for you in this series.

1:20.2

So keep listening, my love. It's going to be a good one.

1:24.0

You're listening to Feminist Wellness, the only podcast that combines functional medicine, life coaching, and feminism

1:32.0

to teach smart women how to reclaim their power and restore their

1:35.6

health. Here's your host, nurse practitioner, functional medicine expert, herbalist and

1:41.4

life coach, Victoria Albina.

1:44.0

Hello, hello my love. I hope this finds you doing so well.

1:52.0

So I'm just going to dive right on in because this is a huge topic

1:58.6

particularly for my folks out there with cod dependent perfectionist and people-pleasing thought habits.

2:05.2

It can be so challenging.

2:08.6

And our topic today is apologizing. So it can be really challenging to give an apology, to hear one, or to not constantly

2:20.0

apologize.

2:21.0

It's a whole thing, and you know I love diving in deep on the things that keep

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