EP 63: Attachment Theory Informed Early Stages of Dating: How to Date with Secure Attachment Style
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
4.7 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 October 2020
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
You will not chase what is meant for you.
You are attracting all that is meant for you when you show up as your most secure, empowered and confident version of you.
“Chasing” in love doesn’t work; it just gets EXHAUSTING
Conscious couples meet in the middle.
They show up with intention.
#nochasingrequired
The very act of chasing, causes the recipient to flee.
Think about that. When you chase, you create a pursuer distancer dynamic.
Do you struggle with chasing (OR maybe you are the one “fleeing”) in the early stages of dating?
Then today’s podcast might be just what you need.
In today’s podcast episode you will get the inside scoop on:
-Why you do what you do in the early stages of dating (Aka attachment theory applied)
-How to make dating FUN and enjoyable
-Understanding “Relationship Pacing” and how to use it to build the relationship you truly want
This episode is short, but it is PACKED full of pure gold to help with the early stages of dating.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr Morgan Anderson clinical psychologist relationship |
| 0:16.1 | coach love expert creator of the ESL relationship method and athletic wear connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise |
| 0:27.0 | yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:34.0 | Each week, two episodes will air |
| 0:36.0 | featuring expert advice, live coaching, |
| 0:40.0 | and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and attract great relationships. |
| 0:46.0 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and loved. |
| 0:51.0 | So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. |
| 0:55.0 | Exciting update. |
| 0:56.7 | I have a brand new free resource. |
| 0:58.8 | You all asked for it, so I created it. |
| 1:01.7 | This is a relationship attachment quiz designed to help you understand your patterns in |
| 1:07.6 | relationships. You can take this totally free quiz now by going to the link in my |
| 1:14.7 | Instagram bio at Dr Morgan coaching and click attachment quiz and you all know I |
| 1:21.8 | love to hear from you so either screenshot and tag me with |
| 1:26.5 | your result or send me a DM letting me know your result from the quiz. |
| 1:32.4 | You guys this is totally free and this will be helpful to you so go |
| 1:36.5 | check it out. Can't wait for you to take the quiz and to share your results. |
| 1:41.3 | Welcome to a episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable |
| 1:46.4 | podcast that has been inspired by you all. |
| 1:50.6 | I really appreciate all of the DMs that I've been getting and I tend to notice |
| 1:57.8 | themes in my messages so when there's a lot of a certain type of question I have to make sure that I address it because I care about you all and I want you all to have great relationships, not just okay ones. |
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