EP 569: Pt. 2. Secure Love Starts Here: Dating with Boundaries, Clarity, and Confidence

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson

Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

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🗓️ 11 August 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

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In this episode of the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast, we dive into the world of securely attached dating, focusing on how to effectively use dating apps. Discover practical advice on creating authentic profiles, setting boundaries, and maintaining a healthy mindset. This is part two of my series on secure love and dating with clarity and confidence.

Inside today’s episode:

The importance of knowing your "why" before starting to date
Learn how to create a dating profile that reflects your authentic self
The dating mindset shifts you need to actually start enjoying the dating apps

I want to invite you to stop your patterns of unhealthy relationships and finally choose yourself. You deserve to do the inner work that will support you in becoming securely attached, so you can easily attract the relationships you deserve.

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Dating Affirmations for Securely Attached Dating.

I am worthy of a deep, committed and healthy love.
I attract emotionally available partners with ease.
I set boundaries that protect my peace and honor my worth.
My dating life is aligned and it is intentional.
I trust the timing of my life. I am open to love in all of its beautiful forms.
I surrender control and I enjoy my dating journey.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, psychologist, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, author of Love Magnet and Athletic Wear Connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life.
0:22.3	Each week, two episodes will air featuring expert advice, live coaching, and tips, showing you
0:28.4	exactly how to improve your life and attract a healthy relationship. You deserve to feel empowered,
0:34.8	secure, and love. Buckle up and Let's Get Vulnerable.
0:41.9	Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast.
0:44.6	I'm your host, Dr. Morgan, and I'm so excited for you to hear today's episode.
0:50.4	We're going to get into securely attached dating, and I'm going to specifically give you some advice
0:57.1	about the dating apps. You all have been in my DMs, you've been in my email inbox, you have been
1:02.6	telling me how do we use the apps? So this episode is my response, okay? This is going to give you
1:10.6	the no filter, the no BS. This is how you show up
1:14.4	securely attached and use the dating apps. I think this is something I wish I had known when I was dating
1:23.5	and I know that you'll be wanting to share this episode with your friends, with anybody who's
1:29.0	using a dating app. And let's just normalize that the apps are here to stay. I feel like some people
1:35.3	are just so over them. And I talk to those of you who you're like, yep, I'm going to date,
1:41.0	but I'm not using the apps. And I get it. I get it. You've had
1:45.3	tough experiences. You've been ghosted. You feel like you've wasted your time or people are not
1:51.9	serious. You have all these reasons. I totally get it. And I promise you, if you can learn how to
1:59.6	use the apps from a securely attached place, you will enjoy using them.
2:04.8	They will be helpful to you.
2:06.5	And I know that this episode is going to help you reset your relationship with the dating apps.
2:13.2	So this is part two of a two-part series where we're talking about secure love and dating
2:21.8	with boundaries, clarity, and confidence.
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