Ep. 53 - How to create a compelling reason
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 17 August 2020
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
Creating a compelling reason to get over your ex is one of the most important pieces to getting over your ex. Without it you won't succeed. Secondly, it's important that your compelling reason isn't "demotivating" meaning you feel deflated and defeated when you think about it. The difference between my successful bravehearts and my struggling bravehearts is simple, their compelling reason withstands the voice in their brain that wants to reach out to their ex, or stalk him on social media. It uplifts them in the most devastating moments of their heartbreak. Listen in today to learn how to create YOUR compelling reason to get over your ex.
In this episode:
- Learn what a compelling reason is
- Why it's important
- How to create your own compelling reason to get over your ex that uplifts you in the darkest moments of your heartbreak
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex, episode number 53. |
| 0:04.3 | How to Create a compelling reason. |
| 0:22.6 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:24.8 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. |
| 0:28.3 | Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:34.0 | Hello, my brave hearts. |
| 0:40.1 | So this past weekend, I was meeting with a colleague of mine whom I love so so much and we were talking about our businesses and all of that it's what I love to do on my days off |
| 0:46.0 | um I just love my brave hearts so much I love coming up with new ways to provide you value |
| 0:51.7 | and show up and get results and help my brave hearts |
| 0:55.3 | get over their X to go on and help heal the world. So anyhow, we were chit-chatting about business |
| 1:01.3 | and all of that stuff and something that came up was so important and it's something that really |
| 1:06.9 | comes easily to me and I realized maybe this doesn't come easily to everyone. |
| 1:12.2 | All of my brave hearts here. So I wanted to share it with all of you. So when I was going through |
| 1:18.0 | my breakup, I had a really compelling reason as to why I wanted to get over him. I wanted to get over |
| 1:27.3 | him so that I could create a better life than the |
| 1:30.7 | one I thought I had with him. And I really envisioned what that would look like. It looked like |
| 1:37.1 | being super independent, living in a beautiful home that I loved, having enough money to do whatever |
| 1:42.8 | it was that I wanted, traveling and spending |
| 1:45.8 | time with loved ones, family friends, lovers, all of it. And I remember thinking if the life I thought |
| 1:52.5 | I had with him was living in Florida, having a boat, having the three-bedroom, two-bath |
| 1:58.2 | house with our dog, eventually getting married and having a baby |
| 2:02.3 | to me that's what living happily ever after looked like and i really had to think about |
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