Instead of saying for 2023, I want to attract a relationship, instead set the intention to feel more love.

Instead of saying that you want to attract money or a higher-paying job, instead say,

I want to feel more security or I intend it to feel more security and freedom within myself.

You see, what happens a lot of times when people set New Year's resolutions or they set goals,

is the goals are something that is an external thing.

And the thing is, the way reality works is what we experience on the outside is simply a reflection of what we feel on the inside.

And if instead of focusing on the external, which of course it's like realities like a mirror,

realities reflecting back the expression you're putting out, instead of saying, I want to attract a smiling reflection for 2023,

then you say, instead, I want to smile. I want to feel happy in 2023.

And then naturally, the outer reflection of life will begin to reflect that.

One of the biggest challenges people have with setting goals, think about it.

People set goals for 2023 or whatever year.

What they do is if you go to the gym January 1st, crazy busy, everyone signing up, everyone is setting new habits.

Habits are surface level.

So what they do is they set a new habit to go to the gym.

They go for a month.

And then what happens is in February, there's less people there than they were in January.

And then by March, it's much easier. It's normal.

Where most of those people have fallen off.

Now, why is that? Because habits aren't identity and don't come from a place of presence.

So habits are things that you do when at the deeper core level, there's a way that you are.

And if you are somebody that has the identity of being out of shape,

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