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Barb Knows Best

Ep. 45 - Do You Self-Gaslight?

Barb Knows Best

Michelle Maros & Barb Schmidt

Education, Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Religion & Spirituality, Personal Journals, Spirituality, Relationships, Parenting, Alternative Health, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 27 December 2022

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

In continuation of last week’s conversation about gaslighting, Barb and Michelle dive into the topic of self-gaslighting, and how many of us unconsciously fall into this habit. Learn how to detect the subtle signs of self-gaslighting, and how we can proactively change our thoughts and behaviors. Follow us @MichelleMaros and @Peaceful_Barb and share your experiences with us @BarbKnowsBestPod or at www.michellemaros.com/podcast.

Episode Notes:

Subtle signs of self-gaslighting:

  • Constantly making excuses for harmful behavior of other people.
  • Rejecting or repressing your emotions.
  • Calling yourself over-sensitive. Your feelings are valid. Take a pause and feel the feelings before you take your next action.
  • You blame yourself for things out of your control. You don’t have control over other people. You only have control over your own actions.
  • You believe you don’t deserve to be happy because you aren’t worthy. We are all worthy.
  • You stay in situations that make you feel unsafe because you don’t trust your intuition and you don’t want to be rude.
  • We talk ourselves out of following our hearts.


Remember to honor your feelings how you are feeling in the moment. Stand up for yourself in a way that doesn’t harm the other person but still affirms who you are.

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Parker, engineering your success. Hello everyone, Hi friends. Welcome back to Barb knows best the

0:47.9

podcast. I'm your co-host Michelle Marros and I am here with my mother Barbara, Peaceful Barb, back at it again and we are

0:59.3

here for our

1:05.0

inaugural year of the podcast is coming to a close.

1:09.0

Can you believe it?

1:10.0

It's amazing.

1:11.0

Hi Michelle.

1:12.0

Hi, everyone. It's amazing when you's amazing. Hi, Michelle. Hi, everyone.

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It's amazing.

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When you just said that I thought,

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oh my gosh, the year is coming to an end and you're right, the inaugural year.

1:20.0

It's been wonderful to be with you and to be with all of you listening.

1:25.6

I really, I feel like these months of recording these episodes and building this community

1:31.1

have gone by so fast, but it's been truly a highlight of

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