Ep. 449 "What If My Forever Love Missed the Exit?"

CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

Comedy, Personal Journals, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 3.1K Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2025

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

This week’s episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it’s like to feel truly lonely again. There’s real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there’s a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you’re in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one’s for you.

Topics Covered:

Medinah’s celibacy update & unexpected loneliness
Volunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving back
Kiki’s XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guests
Reflections on forever love and generational relationships
Modern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!
When your dress rips during an interview with David Banner
Tips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perks
Weird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden shower

Cocktail of the Week:
🍸 Thirst Trappin’

2 oz lime juice
1 oz grapefruit juice
0.5 oz elderflower liqueur or triple sec
Dash of agave
Tajín rim + lime wheel garnish
Shake with ice, strain over fresh ice in a rocks glass.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Yeah, yeah, check one, two, check one, two.
0:04.3	Is this mic on?
0:05.6	Is this mic on?
0:06.5	Hey, listen, man, it's the one and only trend set of DJ since, and you're listening to cocktails.
0:11.4	Dirty discussions with Kiki and Medina Monroe.
0:14.5	Yeah.
0:19.6	Today's cocktail is called thirst trapping.
0:23.0	Trapping, trapping, trapping, trapping, trapping, trapping, all day night.
0:25.9	That was a song.
0:27.1	I think it was like...
0:27.7	Hit him on ten.
0:28.4	Yeah.
0:29.4	And then Hannah on ten.
0:30.0	And then, Hannah, Atlanta, Hannah, man it.
0:32.7	Yeah.
0:33.2	The time was hard.
0:34.6	Okay.
0:35.0	The ingredients to make a thirst trapping.
0:39.0	Two ounces of tequila repasado,
0:45.4	0.75 ounces of some fresh lime juice, a half ounce of elder flower liqueur or triple sec,
0:51.1	whichever you prefer, one ounce of grapefruit juice, a dash of agave, and a, I always get it wrong,
0:55.0	tagine or tahine? Tahin. A tahine rim.
	...

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