One of the reasons I started this podcast was because I had made an incredible amount of mistakes

around many things in my life, in my 20s, even in my earlier 30s.

And I wished I had someone that could help me, right?

Especially with things around love.

Things that can really take a toll on you.

And I think us women know you could have, even if you were married two months, the recovery,

and you had like a bad fallout, the recovery from the two months could be two years,

could be three years, like the amount of impact that pain and suffering has on us in just

a small amount of time, how it just stays with

us. I just wanted to help women avoid. So today's podcast is going to be about the four red flags

that women constantly miss that I wish they don't. That causes extreme heartache when looking for a guy.

Alaykum, welcome back to the Mindfulness of Speaks podcast.

I'm your host, Mindfulness.

I'm coming to you every week on topics that are really, really important as

as women.

Forgive my raspy voice.

I don't often tell people that I record podcasts before pleasure.

So I always have wake-up voice.

I don't know if that's a good thing, but it's like

when you're a mom, I'm a mom of five, educator of 25 years. So I have a lot going on during the day.

It's the time when I get to do that and I get to record. There's times when it's not that way,

but if you've ever heard my voice raspy, it's because I'm still

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