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Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

Ep. 363: Mom Comparison

Big Fat Positive: Pregnancy and Parenting (BFP)

Laura Birek, Shanna Micko

Parenting, Comedy, Kids & Family

4.7531 Ratings

🗓️ 16 June 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

In the special segment "Big Topic," Shanna and Laura dive into the subject of parental comparison. They open up about the situations that fuel comparison between themselves and other parents in their own lives as well as ideas for how to manage the feelings. Also, Laura reports on a visit from extended family members, and Shanna talks about dealing with several unexpected occurrences at a kids' birthday party. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week. Shanna's kids are 6 and 9 years old, and Laura’s kids are 6 years old and 4 years old.


Topics discussed in this episode:

-Juggling parenting with family visiting from out of town

-Managing anxiety while at a kids' pool party

-Ways that parents compare each other to other parents

-Ways that parents compare each other's kids to other kids

-Ideas for dealing with feelings of comparison and jealousy as a parent

-An awesome, funny kids show that we love

-Challenges of homeownership as a parent


This episode's full show notes can be found here.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, welcome to Big Fat Positive with Shauna and Laura.

0:05.3

On this week's episode, we have our weekly check-ins.

0:07.7

We have our special segment, Big Topic, where we discuss that old Thief of Joy comparison

0:13.3

and how it shows up in our parenting lives, and we wrap it up with our weekly BFPs and BFNs.

0:18.7

Let's get started.

0:24.9

Hello, everyone, and welcome to episode 363. Hi, Laura.

0:30.0

Hi, Shana. Hello, hello. Why don't you kick us off and give us your check-in for the week?

0:36.7

So this week, we had a bunch of family visiting from out of town. That's nice. Yeah, very nice. So my mom came into town because she

0:39.2

planned this epic adventure for her two cousins, who she does not get to see very often,

0:46.1

but who she grew up very close with. So she has a cousin Linda that I think is like two months

0:51.9

younger than her or older than her, something like that. They're exactly the same age. And they grew up near each other. So they were like best friends

0:59.1

growing up, really, really close. And Linda lives in Pennsylvania still, which is where my mom grew up.

1:05.9

And my mom, of course, moved away a long, long time ago. I think she moved away after college

1:10.5

and never lived in Philadelphia

1:12.4

again. So they've obviously seen each other over the years, but never have gotten to spend like

1:17.3

really good quality time together. And my mom really wanted to just do something special with Linda

1:23.9

and Linda's younger sister Jan. And so about, I want to see like a year and a half ago, my mom decided the thing they

1:31.1

needed to do was she needed to fly Linda and Jan down to L.A., have them stay in L.A. for a whole

1:38.0

week before embarking on an 18-day cruise.

1:43.0

What?

1:44.2

Yeah. That will take them from Los Angeles. 18-day cruise. What? Wow.

1:45.3

That will take them from Los Angeles all the way down through Mexico, through the Panama

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