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🗓️ 2 June 2022
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Setting Boundaries is EASY AF when you do this! If you feel ready to become a more confident and magnetic version of you, Join The 21 Day Confidence Love Challenge here: ➡️ https://www.AaronDoughty.com/Love
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0:00.0 | Setting boundaries is one of the most magnetic things you can do. |
0:05.0 | And having a lack of setting boundaries will guarantee that you might continue to get pushed around. |
0:12.0 | Your own desires, your own wants, your own ways of being aren't respected. |
0:17.5 | And in this video, I promise you, you will change or at least have a new perspective of this whole entire dynamic. |
0:23.4 | Know exactly how to heal it, how to have both internal and external boundaries so that it completely changes your life. |
0:31.5 | Now the first thing when it comes to boundaries to understand is that boundaries are simply our ability to say no, |
0:40.0 | the things that we don't want to do, and to have that respected or to at least stand firm in our own level of groundedness. |
0:48.4 | A lot of times what happens when people go through a spiritual awakening or they're into the kind of content that you see on my channel is |
0:56.2 | there's almost a feeling of empathy where you're able to feel other people's emotions. |
1:01.1 | You're able to feel and know what other people are thinking. |
1:04.1 | And this happens as a form of childhood energy where maybe you were able to tune into your parents to see and know what they're feeling and thinking or your family. |
1:14.2 | Maybe you had to be the glue of your family and what ends up happening is we developed this in a way ability to survive as kids. |
1:21.3 | And this ability to tune into other people and to feel connected to other people and a lot of times what that is is that is our desire to feel safe. |
1:29.8 | Our desire to feel like we're connected to other people so that we can create a sense of safety. |
1:35.0 | What ends up happening though is later on in life, we find it very hard to set boundaries with people because we have trained people in a way |
1:43.8 | that the way we respond is we will do anything for other people. |
1:48.9 | There are no boundaries that we set. |
1:51.3 | And the thing with reality is it's very interesting is that people are always responding to us based on what we are putting out. |
2:00.8 | So if we're putting out the energy and we're training people that it is okay for them not to respect our boundaries |
2:08.1 | or that they can talk us into things that we don't want to do and move us from our own center of gravity and we let that be okay. |
2:15.7 | Then in their mind it's okay and we're allowing it. |
2:19.1 | There's this common thing that happens when we have trouble setting boundaries that we might blame and tell like other people are not respecting what I want or how I am. |
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