Ep. 328: Embodied Values & Bridging the Divide of Who you Are and Who you Want to Become

Unperform with Tiffany Han (formerly Raise Your Hand Say Yes)

Tiffany Han

Education, Business, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.7 • 525 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2020

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

This week, I'm answering a listener question (hi Susan!) about how to embody and live into one's values, but I'm also taking this question deeper to talk about how to get started in bridging the divide between where you are now and where you want to be, even if (and especially when!) that divide feels overwhelming and insurmountable!

I also share how you might be treating those seeds you're planting so unfairly and what to do instead as well as give some personal-for-your-agency-archetype advice for each type. (I feel like I took myself to church on this one; thank you for your question, Susan! It inspired so much!)

What I said:

"When it comes to embodying values, our job is to stay really fluid, nimble, and open."

"If we keep taking steps, those steps might take us somewhere surprising."

"If you are not embodying your own values, you're embodying somebody else's."

"Commit to using your values as your compass even if everyone else seems to be loving some totally-jacked-but-socially-acceptable-enough compass to guide their lives."

"The answer to getting to where you want to be is not to stay where you don't want to be."

Those Timestamps:

06:11 - How to get started with a values list

08:16 - Commit to imperfect and uncomfortable action

12:47 - How small steps can be a game-changer for you

18:17 - Values as a compass

24:20 - Crossing the divide between where you are and where you want to be AND how to approach this considering your Agency Archetype

30:08 - Destruction as an unbuilding

Show Notes:

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome back to raise your hands say yes with life coach Tiffany Hahn. This is a podcast that is all
0:06.8	about teaching smart, ambitious women, how to raise their hands and say yes to all of those things
0:11.4	they want to do, be and say without compromising their standards or their sanity. For more information,
0:17.8	go to Tiffany Hahn.com and now on to the show.
0:29.3	Hey, hey, y'all. Welcome back to another raise your hand say yes. Super thrilled that you are here as always.
0:40.9	Y'all, it's August. What, what, what, what does that even mean? Here's what it means. It means that after August comes September and when September rolls around is when we get to open applications for the raise your hands,
0:47.0	say yes in our circle. So what I want to tell you right now, even though there's plenty of time,
0:52.2	even though it feels like September is miles and
0:55.2	eons away, is if you are intrigued, jazz, turned on, excited, delighted, slightly nervously
1:07.6	excited about the idea of spending a year with me, I want you to pause what you're doing,
1:14.1	click through to the show notes of this episode, and submit your name for the early application
1:20.7	email list so that you can be first to know. I have been kind of slowly taking on people with this. And a quick note about
1:33.2	the applications for that. This is not about trying to exclude people. It's not about anything high
1:39.8	pressure. It really is the chance for me to try to make sure that everybody who comes into
1:47.1	the program and the experience, that this experience is a good fit for you. So it's not about
1:53.8	are you a good fit for the group? It's really me wanting to make sure that the work that I do
1:58.5	is a good fit for you so that you can have the outcome that you are
2:04.5	looking for. So that is why we do applications. And there are 150 spots. Currently, there are
2:11.8	right around 90 left. And obviously my goal is to sell out. So if you are like, bye, I want to do it.
2:21.0	Or maybe you've stopped yourself in the past or you've thought about it for year after year.
2:25.2	Maybe this is your year. You can sign up again to get that early application access.
2:33.2	And I don't know for a certain wink wink but there will also be some
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