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Feminist Wellness

Ep #322: Why You Keep Fighting the Same Fights (And How to Actually Shift Them)

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Lifecoaching, Holistic, Feminist, Self-improvement, Fatigue, Alternative Health, Feelingstuckinlife, Spirituality, Healthygut, Health & Fitness, Mindbodyconnection, Guthealth, Connectionsbetweenthoughtsandhealth, Education, Ibs, Gutmicrobiome, Feminism

4.9988 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

#322: Are you stuck in a relationship where every disagreement turns into an emotional marathon? Where the same wounds keep getting ripped open no matter how hard you try to heal them? 

When we fight with our partners, family members, or friends, what's really happening goes far beyond the words being exchanged.

In this week's episode, I dive into the four nervous system responses that show up during conflict—fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and how each one shapes your reactions in ways you might not even realize.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://beatrizalbina.com/322

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0:00.0

Hey, before we dive in, if you're stuck in old habits you know aren't working but can't seem to change,

0:05.8

join me live on Zoom for why you're stuck, the first in my new exciting workshop series.

0:11.7

It's happening Wednesday, April 30th, from 8 to 9.30 p.m. Eastern Time.

0:16.1

You'll learn all about why so many of us stay feeling so stuck in self-doubt, people-pleasing,

0:23.9

and why you can't mindset your way out. Sign up at Beatricealbina.com slash workshop. This is feminist wellness, and I'm your host,

0:43.6

Nurse Practitioner, Functional Medicine Expert, and Life Coach, Bea Victoria Albina.

0:48.3

I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism, and codependency,

0:53.5

so you can live from your beautiful

0:55.2

heart. Welcome, my love. Let's get started. Hello, hello, my love. I hope this finds you

1:04.2

doing so well, my beauty. Let's get real about something that can make or break a relationship, and that is conflict.

1:15.0

If you're in a relationship where every disagreement turns into an exhausting emotional marathon,

1:21.1

if you keep cycling through the same arguments with different words,

1:25.0

if you walk away from fights feeling worse, not better, you, my tender love,

1:31.3

you're not alone. If you're in a relationship where fights aren't just exhausting when they happen,

1:37.1

but they are constant, where the same wounds kept getting ripped open, de-hissing is the medical

1:43.1

term for that, it's not a great word.

1:45.6

Where conflict feels like a cycle that just never ends, where you've tried everything and

1:51.0

nothing shifts. It's time to take a breath and really look at what might be happening.

1:57.6

Because fighting can be repaired. Patterns can change, but only if both people are

2:03.6

willing to do something different. And that something different often involves some pretty deep work.

2:11.3

So, some people fight about big things, money, values, trust. Some people fight about small things. Dishwashers. Text tone, how their partner

2:20.7

breathed just a little too loud last night. Some people don't fight at all. They just stew in silent

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