Ep: 3 Learn from a Relapse
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 6 March 2017
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the expert. |
| 0:02.0 | Do that over again. |
| 0:03.5 | Yeah, I forgot that the three, it was like the intro. |
| 0:07.0 | Okay. |
| 0:08.0 | Hey guys, welcome to the Betray, the addicted and the expert. |
| 0:11.0 | My name is Brannon and I am the expert. I'm Ashland and I am the |
| 0:15.4 | betrayed. And I'm Kobe and I'm the addicted. All right so let's jump right in you |
| 0:19.9 | guys. Today's topic is really important. What we're talking about is what happens or what to do when the addicted |
| 0:28.3 | relapses. And so I think the first thing that we really need to do is understand what is a relapse and |
| 0:35.9 | Kobe I don't know if you want to speak to that. Yeah I can I can speak plenty to that actually |
| 0:41.0 | as it as it were. So relapse for me was comprised of like many things. It |
| 0:48.0 | could have been acting out having inappropriate conversations with with |
| 0:52.4 | anybody else, |
| 0:53.6 | whether that's text, phone call, |
| 0:56.7 | you know, anything to edit that nature. |
| 0:59.9 | It could have been looking at porn, but also could have been looking at porn but also could have been looking at just really |
| 1:06.0 | provocative pictures on for instance say Facebook right or online it could have |
| 1:11.3 | been masturbation to climax but it could have been masturbation to climax, but it could have been self soothing as well and |
| 1:16.4 | self soothing just to be really clear. That's essentially masturbation without climax. |
| 1:22.3 | It's how I've defined it. |
| 1:23.0 | And that's, a lot of times guys that I talked to will talk about |
| 1:30.0 | getting right up to that point of climax and then not. |
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