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Feminist Wellness

Ep #299: Sneaky Codependent, People-Pleasing, and Perfectionist Thoughts

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Lifecoaching, Holistic, Feminist, Self-improvement, Fatigue, Alternative Health, Feelingstuckinlife, Spirituality, Healthygut, Health & Fitness, Mindbodyconnection, Guthealth, Connectionsbetweenthoughtsandhealth, Education, Ibs, Gutmicrobiome, Feminism

4.9988 Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

#299: Do you ever catch yourself saying things like "I don't want to be a burden" or "I should be able to handle this on my own?"

These sneaky emotional outsourcing thoughts can keep us trapped in codependent, people-pleasing, and perfectionist patterns. The good news is that I have practical remedies that will help you break free. From the 2% permission practice to reversing the spotlight effect, you'll walk away with actionable steps to start prioritizing your own needs and desires.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://victoriaalbina.com/299

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0:00.0

This is feminist wellness, and I'm your host,

0:11.1

Nurse Practitioner, Functional Medicine expert, and life coach, Victoria Albina.

0:15.6

I'll show you how to get unstuck, drop the anxiety, perfectionism, and codependency,

0:20.2

so you can live from your beautiful

0:22.0

heart. Welcome, my love. Let's get started. My love, I've been hard at work writing a book for you.

0:31.6

And so I've been recording the podcast in advance to give myself lots of focus time, lots of margin within which to work.

0:40.0

So at the time of recording this particular podcast, the outcome of the 2024 election is unknown.

0:46.1

And I just want to acknowledge that many of us, in particular feminist wellness listeners,

0:52.8

might be feeling really big feelings. We might be feeling

0:57.1

scared, hopeless, upset, worried, or hopefully fingers crossed, hopefully, not like the entire world

1:05.5

is ending. Either way, I want to remind you of your skills, because this election season has been a doozy.

1:14.5

As a listener of feminist wellness, I know you have the skills and the tools to ground your nervous system,

1:20.7

to come back towards embodied safety like we talked about in episode 275 in the embodiment series, 276 to 279, to step out of catastrophizing,

1:32.0

like we talked about in 285.

1:34.1

And regardless of the outcomes, I think most of our nervous systems are wicked-fried,

1:39.1

especially if you've been paying attention.

1:42.1

And so I want to invite you to listen to the special series I released earlier

1:45.6

in the pandemic right after episode 57. The tools in there are super helpful in times like these.

1:52.9

Most of all, I'll say this. We need each other. We need community care, mutual aid, collective

1:59.1

thinking, collective support support to have our own

2:01.6

backs and each other's, and to remember what Audrey Lord taught us about self-care, that it is a

2:09.6

radical act.

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