Okay, we talk about, we're all about moving forward, right? Yes. I mean that's what our

platform is is moving forward, have hoping forward. Yeah.

And not getting stuck.

So we're going to talk about one of the major, in fact, probably the thing that keeps people

stuck today, which is getting caught up in victim, playing the victim.

So just, do you want to speak to that, you guys?

What is playing the victim?

Have you played the victim? Never. I never have.

The adequate question is how long Kobe did you play the victim? I played the victim to actually to multiple things in life, multiple circumstances and situations.

And I did that looking back back really since I was a kid

and I learned very early how to do that

so I would play victim to girls not liking me I was I was dumped in seventh

grade by by a girl named Amy and she broke my heart and and so from that time

forward and that actually was a real issue that I had to do EMD.

But if she's listening now, you know if you're out there.

If you only knew, breaking up with me in a note in like, you know, seventh grade science class whatever but but that one that

one was was rejection for me and so that put me into this mode of I'm not good enough, I'm not wanted, I'm not loved, and so I really

went into victim mode and that became a license and title for me to like seek comfort with porn and acting out.

He gave you a good justification.

Yeah.

Completely.

Completely. I'm playing the victim is definitely a denial mechanism to justify behaviors that hurt yourself.

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