EP 275: Kelly Chase Interview: Understanding Attachment Theory, Becoming Secure, & Releasing the Past with Special Guest Dr. Morgan Pt. 2
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
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🗓️ 19 October 2022
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
PART TWO! Kelly Chase and I had such a powerful first interview, we needed to continue the conversation.
We dove deep into topics such as securely attached sex, and situationships.
Here is a total breakdown of what was covered:
Avoidant Attachment and Its Difficulties [5:23]
“People with avoidant attachment struggle with reassurance. There is a lot of uncertainty. Everything in the relationship is confusing, but the sex is good. ”
- The Shame in Needing Sex [13:42]
“Women feel guilty about needing it, but hey maybe the way your relationship has functioned only allows you to feel connected and safe when you have sex. Sex is one of the many ways you can connect with your partner.”
- Securely Attached Sex [15:02]
“What a lot of people need to realize is that when your energy is not going to the drama or the unpredictability, it can go into the deepening of building a life and having wonderful experiences with someone. Safe and secure is sexy.”
- Having the Courage to Say Something [20:54]
“In order to have the relationship that you want and make it sustainable of course, you have to tune in to yourself, speak up and voice what’s going on. We can be assertive and redirect.”
- Fear of Starting the Life Over [26:19]
“Do you want to spend a life of suffering for the rest of your life or do you want to go through the temporary pain of leaving the relationship? Go through the temporary pain, avoid the lifetime of suffering.”
- Couple’s Therapy and Uncoupling [28:52]
“Successful couple’s therapy is not the couples staying together, it’s doing what’s best for the couples and individuals and sometimes that is uncoupling. Sometimes, that is the very best thing.”
“Uncoupling is intentionally dissolving a romantic relationship, and creating a new type of relationship in that process.”
- Failures in Dating [37:56]
“There’s no failure in dating, there’s only learning.”
- Forgetting and Forgiveness [42:06]
“Your pain is valid. Your experience is valid. Forgiveness is just deciding you’re not going to carry around the anger.”
- Being Honest with Yourself [49:00]
“You get to be honest with yourself about the kind of relationship that you want, and how you want to feel.”
Make sure you connect with Kelly on IG @chaselifewithkelly
You can also check out her podcast: Chase Life with Kelly - available everywhere podcasts are aired.
If this episode inspired you to take action in your dating life, I want to invite you to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program.
If you’re ready to get off the dating rollercoaster and become the securely attached version of you; I want to invite you to apply to the E.S.L. program today.
The time is NOW to intentionally invest in your healing.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast with me your host Dr. Morgan Anderson, clinical psychologist, relationship |
| 0:16.4 | coach, love expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, and athletic wear connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise |
| 0:27.3 | yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:34.0 | Each week, two episodes will air, |
| 0:37.0 | featuring expert advice, live coaching, |
| 0:40.0 | and tips showing you exactly how to improve your life and attract great relationships. |
| 0:46.0 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and loved. |
| 0:51.0 | So buckle up and let's get vulnerable. Are you tired of investing your time and your energy |
| 0:59.2 | into relationships that go nowhere and you know deep down the common denominator is you. You have |
| 1:08.6 | awareness that whatever you're doing right now in relationships is not working it's not serving you and |
| 1:14.4 | you are ready to take ownership of this area of your life and finally learn |
| 1:20.4 | how to embody a securely attached confident woman who can attract a great |
| 1:27.5 | relationship. If that's you I have a very special invitation. I want to invite you to apply to the |
| 1:36.7 | empowered secure and loved program. This is a program designed to help you no matter your attachment style, no matter your relationship |
| 1:46.8 | past, it will help you move to secure attachment so that you can show up confident, you can communicate well, you can |
| 1:58.2 | navigate any kind of conflict, and you can create that relationship that you've always wanted will |
| 2:05.4 | simultaneously having high self-worth and high levels of self-love. If that's you and you know that in 2022 you are ready for a great |
| 2:18.8 | relationship and you're committed to getting there. I want to personally invite you to apply to the ESL program. |
| 2:26.8 | Use the link in my Instagram bio. On Instagram it's at Dr. D.R. Morgan coaching, |
| 2:34.0 | and the link is also in the show notes. |
| 2:36.0 | Spots are extremely limited, |
| 2:38.0 | so go apply now to reserve your spot |
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