We spend most of our lives intending to not be abandoned by other people, intending

to not be rejected, to feel worthy, to feel and to get the validation from other people.

And what we do is we end up abandoning ourselves in the process of gaining the attention

and the validation of other people.

And in so many ways in my own life, I have abandoned myself to make others happy because

it was in a way a survival mechanism from childhood.

Many of you watching this, you may have had trauma or certain experiences when you were

a kid.

And what you had to do is you had to tune your own energy to other people, to parental

dynamics, your grandparents, and you had to tune a lot of times to their emotions and

their rules.

And what happened is you're then looking to them to then see if you're acting in a line

in accordance with how they expect you to so that you can gain their validation.

Maybe they would held their validation.

Maybe you weren't easily given it.

And what happens is then through life, you're in this pattern survival mechanism where other

people's validation and other people's attention or other people's sense of approval gives

you your sense of safety, your sense of worthiness.

And what happens is your desires, your emotions, your intentions get put to the side so that

you can please other people and make them happy.

This can work in love dynamics.

I'm going to share with you how I broke through those and how that completely changed my

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