Welcome back to that episode on the Aaron Doudy podcast.

My name is Aaron Doudy and today we're going to be talking about that of abandonment and

how we may have experienced abandonment growing up, either emotional or physical abandonment

and how that led to later in life us abandoning ourselves at the expense of ourselves to then

please or make other people happy or fix people or take the attention away from us.

There is a massive energy dynamic of abandonment that I think many people listening to this podcast

may have experienced because it's very common to experience this kind of childhood trauma.

And I also want to just share some things in my own shadow work that have made me aware of

this emotional abandonment and abandonment in general and how this is passed down in family

lines.

So it's not even necessarily your parents fault.

A lot of times it's like you look at shadow work and it's like, oh, it was the parents

fault.

Well, your parents were not trained that way, but your parents went through similar energy

dynamics that the same thing happened to them.

So they're just playing out similar patterns until someone steps up and changes the pattern.

So it helps us have a little bit more compassion.

I look at my dad's side of family, my mom's side of family and there's abandonment on both

sides where they, my parents experienced abandonment and no wonder that then that was an energy

pattern that subconsciously brought out in certain ways that own level of abandonment.

So that's what I want to talk about in this episode.

One of the biggest transformations I've had over the last year has been me becoming aware

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