EP 189 — Wayland Myers: Nonviolent Communication Basics
Spirit Gym with Paul Chek
Paul Chek
4.8 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 17 May 2022
⏱️ 162 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | What I found over and over again is that the problems the couples struggled with were more due to the ways they went about trying to talk about it than the issue itself. |
| 0:15.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:16.0 | So if there was blaming judgment, you know, demands, |
| 0:20.0 | shaming, whatever, |
| 0:22.0 | they wouldn't be able to resolve what it was that they were struggling with and then that would add and eventually they would keep stacking up unresolved stuff. |
| 0:33.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:34.0 | And then in the process of trying to resolve unsuccessfully, |
| 0:36.8 | they create extra pain. |
| 0:38.6 | So that all gets stacked up and eventually it's like a thunder cell. |
| 0:42.0 | It just blows out the top. |
| 0:43.0 | What they needed was to learn better repair skills. |
| 0:48.0 | Welcome to Living 4D with Paul Check. |
| 0:52.0 | Today's guest is nonviolent communications expert Wayland Meyers. |
| 0:57.0 | Wayland has had a diverse career as a clinical psychologist in the San Diego area. |
| 1:02.0 | He is the author of nonviolent communication, |
| 1:05.1 | the basics as I know and use them, which is Paul's go-to reference on nonviolent |
| 1:10.0 | communication also known as NVC. If you enjoy today's episode please consider |
| 1:15.2 | leaving us a five-star rating and a warm review at the top of the show page on |
| 1:19.4 | Spotify or at the bottom of the show page if you were listening on Apple Podcast. |
| 1:24.0 | Your opinions matter and your ratings help us to grow and help more people to be healthy, |
| 1:28.8 | find freedom of body and mind and to live their dreams. |
| 1:32.3 | Enjoy learning about nonviolent communication with Paul and Wayland Myers. |
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