Ep.180: Time For A Second (Or Umpteenth) Chance?
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2020
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
When someone shows us who they are, they're showing us their values. If that's different to who we are and where we want to go, we have to acknowledge this. But sometimes, despite what we know, we look to give a second (or umpteenth) chance. Natalie breaks down what's really going on in these situations so that when we do give (or receive) chances, we do so with more awareness and truth.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Natalie Lou and you're listening to the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:08.0 | Hello hello. How are you doing? |
| 0:11.0 | Well, last week's episode, for Better the Devil, you know, had my inbox popping. |
| 0:20.0 | I talked about when X's who didn't treat us with love, trust and respect pop back into our life, |
| 0:27.2 | possibly making big declarations about who and what they're going to be and do, or yeah, sometimes massaging our ego and telling us about |
| 0:36.3 | how we've always been there for them and how, no matter how badly they've treated us, |
| 0:42.1 | you know, we've just always been there, you know, we're a good guy, |
| 0:45.0 | and how sometimes we get sucked into the nostalgia. |
| 0:50.0 | I heard from people who had been through this recently and the episode allowed them to give themselves |
| 1:00.1 | permission to breathe out and forgive themselves and move forward. |
| 1:04.7 | And then I also heard from people who, after they listened to the episode, they heard from |
| 1:09.7 | their ex who said very similar things to what I talked about and how they were actually |
| 1:15.0 | cracking up laughing because it was like oh my gosh this is like a thing |
| 1:20.1 | it's almost like there's a secret playbook out there that they're all reading. |
| 1:27.0 | And then I taught a class about compatibility to my reclaim a membership a couple of days back. And incidentally it is a class I |
| 1:37.6 | plan to teach to non-members soon but I've really had to kind of wrap my head around this whole lockdown, live classes, workshops over |
| 1:48.0 | Zoom, Malaki, and just, yeah. So anyway, I digress. So, in the class, somebody asked this really interesting question that I felt, okay, that this is something I need to explore in the next episode as well. |
| 2:01.0 | And it was this, when do you know you can give someone a second |
| 2:05.9 | chance if the first time round they showed you their values? So let's speak to the values bit first. So this question, you know, it links in with what I talked about last week, but it deserves an episode all of its own, because there are a couple of things coming |
| 2:25.6 | up here. Our understanding of values and our |
| 2:35.0 | preferences, |
| 2:38.0 | principles and priorities for how we want to live. |
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