If you're start to change your language, you're going to create different stories and they're going to bump up against into all of the other victim-centric stories you've created and your addictions to them.

The process is simple in one sense and it does take some guts to get into our stories and

deal with our attachments, especially projections.

I mean that that's very confronting.

You ruined my life.

Take out you, put in, I ruined my life.

Whoa. Well, if I ruined my life, well, how did I do that and what could I do differently?

It puts us, most people's language, Paul, tricks them into being innocent bystanders in their life.

It puts them in the stands.

You want to be in the arena.

You want to be the author of your own story for better and for worse.

So it's not at all personal, you know,

you're taking my personal rights, it's personal responsibilities.

Welcome to Living 4D with Paul Check. Today's guest is self-professed language geek, Mark England.

As a martial artist, Mark was driven by his need to succeed. It took a severe injury and knee surgery to help him

uncover what was driving him to the breaking point. In the recovery process he

found language as a tool to transform his life and has gone on as a language geek to be a TEDx speaker and

help thousands of people better their lives with how they think and speak.

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