Ep. 151: Why Don't They Like Me????
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 13 September 2019
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
How do you feel when you realise or sense that someone doesn't like you? If intrusive thoughts about this have popped up more than you would like and even kept you awake at night, you are far from being alone. Natalie shares some of the reasons why humans dislike each other. She also talks about why not being liked bothers us so much, how we are often most bothered when it's someone we don't like or when we don't feel that we've 'earned' their feelings, and she also shares some questions for self-exploration and moving forward.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Natalie Lou and you're listening to the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm back! Yay! It's been six weeks since the last episode and you know what that summer break was very much needed but it is good to be back |
| 0:20.0 | Before I get into today's topic, I do want to give a shout out to everybody who showed up at the |
| 0:27.2 | meet-up that I hosted in Amsterdam. Oh my gosh, I had a blast. Amsterdam seems to love me back. |
| 0:36.0 | We had a meetup that was hosted by my friend Kirra at her store Vess. |
| 0:41.0 | She's got two of them in Amsterdam and she sells ethical |
| 0:46.0 | and sustainable clothing and accessories and I gave a talk on the you know building a sustainable relationship with you through self-care and |
| 0:56.3 | we had a very funny and heated Q&A and which my brother was involved in he had never actually seen me in sort of baggage |
| 1:04.7 | reclaim mode and you know he actually got very teary and overwhelmed because he was |
| 1:09.8 | just like so in awe you know about what I was doing and so it was quite funny because he was just like oh my sister I can't believe this so he like thoroughly enjoyed himself and seemed to really hit it off with people who attended. I also wanted to mention that I haven't |
| 1:28.1 | forgotten that I am planning to do some workshops and meet-ups this autumn. |
| 1:35.0 | Because of the summer break, I have decided to ease myself back in because I am still a bit tired. And I thought that I would do some stuff behind the scenes, |
| 1:48.1 | but I needed more rest than I thought that I did. So I'm still in the process of organizing but I can say that I am going to do baggage |
| 1:56.5 | reclaimed birthday celebrations in mid-October and it is going to include doing a recording of a podcast episode with an audience. |
| 2:08.0 | So that has been a bit daunting to plan and organize but I'm almost there and I'm very |
| 2:15.6 | very excited about that and M is going to be there and I'm hoping to have my girls |
| 2:19.6 | there too and I'm hoping that lots of you guys will come along as well. So fun times ahead, going to announce that soon. |
| 2:27.0 | Okay, let's get into today's topic. I think one of the things that we all struggle with at times is feeling, believing, or in fact knowing that we are not liked by someone. |
| 2:49.0 | As humans, we all want to be accepted and we are all afraid of rejection. |
| 2:57.2 | When we sense or know that we are not liked by somebody, we often feel as if it says something about us. |
| 3:07.2 | It bothers our ego in particular that somebody out there isn't on Team Us. |
| 3:14.8 | And in today's episode, I really want to dive into this topic of not being liked, |
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