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Recovering From Reality

Ep. 146 Navigating Divorce and Co-Parenting with Attorney Nicole Sodoma

Recovering From Reality

Dear Media, Alexis Haines

Dear, Health & Fitness, From, Education, Naiers, Alexis, Reality, Haines, Media, Recovering

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 30 May 2022

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this week’s episode I am sitting down with Nicole Sodoma—a Marriage-loving Divorce Attorney and Author. We discuss our shared backgrounds of growing up in divorced households, the importance of dual devotion in a partnership, what you should know about prenups, why you shouldn’t say “I’m sorry” when someone tells you they’re divorced, explaining divorce to kids, and so much more.

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a deer media production.

0:07.5

Hey, this is Alexis Haines and welcome to Recovering from Reality,

0:11.6

where I illuminate the messy and magical path of coming home to yourself.

0:16.1

Whether you're on the road to recovery, seeking self-care techniques for surviving the

0:20.5

capitalist machine, or just need a moment to remember that you're not alone in your loneliness,

0:26.2

we're serving up the ultimate truth. Your challenges don't define you, how you deal with them does.

0:33.0

So are you ready to recover from reality?

0:37.7

One of the things that it becomes really frustrating, that you cannot control the narrative,

0:45.6

like the perspective of both especially when you share children, what was an acceptable behavior

0:54.7

before you separated as apparently no longer an acceptable behavior?

0:59.3

And you know, I say the people we marry are not the people we divorce.

1:03.6

They're going, they're just not true.

1:06.0

It's not the same.

1:10.4

That was a quick clip from this week's episode with Nicole Sadoma.

1:14.8

She is a family law attorney who has been divorced, loves marriage,

1:20.5

and has some great insight and perspective for you guys on how to handle divorce,

1:29.3

how to go into a marriage being prepared for any possible outcome.

1:35.3

I know that anytime that we talk about these kind of taboo subjects, we can want to turn it off or walk away.

1:45.1

But it's so important to be informed and sitting in the discomfort of this might illuminate some

1:50.4

thing that you didn't know needed to be illuminated and help you better prepare for something in your

1:56.2

life. And I'm sure many of you will have happy successful marriages.

2:01.0

Just like I consider mine to be like I really do looking back at the last 10 years of marriage with Evan,

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