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Feminist Wellness

Ep #14: Buffering

Feminist Wellness

Béa Victoria Albina

Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2019

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Buffering is an incredibly common habit, so I wanted to take this episode to walk you through what buffering is, how to identify it, and how to gently shift away from this behavior. I share some familiar buffering mechanisms, talk about how our culture reinforces our desire to buffer, and why buffering has such a negative impact on your ability to fully experience life.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Our society teaches us in so many direct and insidious ways that there is no need to sit with painful feelings.

0:08.7

That you can pop a pill, have a drink, eat an indulgent food, fire off an email or a comment online, and all

0:16.9

those challenging feelings will just melt away. But the truth is, when you're putting walls up against feeling your feels,

0:25.4

when you're buffering against them trying to keep the facts of our lives at arm's length,

0:30.1

when we use anything external to ourselves to try to not feel, the feelings don't just disappear.

0:39.0

They take root deep in our bodies and will come out somehow, sometime, and will continue to drive your actions

0:48.0

in ways that might not be in alignment with how you want to live your life.

0:55.8

What you resist persists my love. So keep listening to learn how to recognize when you're numbing out, how to sit with

1:00.5

challenging emotions, and how to transform your life by embracing your truth.

1:06.1

Feeling our feelings is a way of healing, an empowering act of reclaiming our bodies,

1:12.2

our minds, our spirits, and our lives.

1:15.0

You're listening to Feminist Wellness, the only podcast that combines

1:20.0

functional medicine, life coaching, and feminism to teach smart women how to reclaim their power

1:26.1

and restore their health. Here's your host, nurse practitioner, functional medicine expert,

1:31.9

herbalist and life coach Coach, Victoria Albina.

1:37.0

Hello, hello, my loves.

1:40.0

I hope this episode finds you doing very well.

1:45.1

I love my work.

1:47.7

I love helping folks learn how to manage their minds

1:51.4

and optimize their wellness. I'm so honored that I get to do this work on the daily.

1:57.0

It's humbling in the most beautiful way. My work is all about behavior change and supporting folks through both the science and psychology-based cognitive behavioral life coaching work I do and the super nerdy root cause-based functional medicine I practice. The reason why I combine life coaching

2:15.6

and mind management with my medical work is because I know that there is no mental

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