I'm Jody Moore at Bold New Mom. This is Episode 126. Be Bold Pillars Part 1, Mastering Relationships.

This is Bold New Mom, a podcast for women and some of my favorite men who know that the best

gift they can give their kids is a happy, healthy, thriving mother. If you're ready to be bold and

you're ready to be a new version of you, you're in the right place. Hey everybody, welcome to the

podcast. Thanks so much for joining me as always. This episode is the first of a five part series

that I'm going to be teaching on the five pillars of what I do in all of my coaching programs. What I

teach to my clients, what I'm teaching you guys here on the podcast really always fits within one

of these five pillars. These are what I find create an extraordinary life. They are what help us

deal with challenges and they're what help us strive to do more, be more and really reach our

potential. At the end of a day, I like to feel like I used myself up in a useful way. That is always

my goal. I like to be tired at the end of a day, but I like to be tired because of what I did,

what I created, what I put out into the world. I'm not talking about that tired where you're

pushing against your life and you're frustrated and overwhelmed and things aren't going how you

planned. While that tired still does happen for me, that's not the tired that I prefer that I

try to create. I'm talking about the feeling of being fulfilled and accomplished and proud of what

I've done. That's the kind of tired that I like. Now again, it doesn't happen every day. Some days

I don't get moving. Some days I'm hanging out in self-pity or doubt or overwhelmed, but I really

try to structure my life and plan my days so that mostly I can feel accomplished and proud and

fulfilled. Not that every moment of my day, even on a good day, even on my best day, not every

moment is that way, but overall I want to feel like I used myself up at the end of the day.

This is the same way I want to feel at the end of my life. I want to feel like I fully lived my life.

Like I left this world better than I found it in my own small, seemingly insignificant way,

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