Ep. 115 - I wasn't chosen
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 11 October 2021
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
One of my clients wanted a happy, healthy, beautiful family. She built that. But then, when her husband decided he no longer wanted to be a part of that family she then thought she wouldn't be able to have what she wanted anymore because he chose something different.
Do you resonate? Whether that's a family, a life partner, a lifestyle that you had in mind that no longer feels possible to you because your ex chose something different. I'm here to talk about how that's simply not true.
What to expect:
- Understand why your brain thinks what your ex does controls what you get or don't get
- Learn what to do when it doesn't feel like your choice
- Become the person who's not at the effect of what their ex chooses
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex episode number 115. |
| 0:04.6 | I wasn't chosen. |
| 0:19.9 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:22.2 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. |
| 0:24.3 | Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:30.1 | Hello, my beautiful Braveheart's. |
| 0:32.2 | How is everyone doing? |
| 0:33.7 | I'm so excited to be here with you today. |
| 0:38.4 | We're going to talk about a topic that comes up very frequently around not being chosen. |
| 0:46.4 | There's a lot of different flavors that I've seen with this. |
| 0:49.9 | I've seen people who, you know, were in like affairs and they either chose to go back to the wife |
| 0:58.0 | or not. And then I'm talking to the wife or I'm talking to the person who is having the |
| 1:02.2 | affair. Um, I've seen, you know, Braveheart's exes move on quickly. And so then that makes |
| 1:09.6 | them think they chose someone else |
| 1:11.4 | over them and I hear it a lot this is like one of the most common lines that comes up in |
| 1:19.2 | coaching is I wasn't chosen I want to be chosen how come I wasn't chosen |
| 1:25.5 | and it most recently came up in a coaching call with someone in the Getover |
| 1:31.7 | Yarks program about how she built this amazing family. |
| 1:37.1 | She has two beautiful kids. |
| 1:39.7 | She had the husband. |
| 1:41.2 | She had this amazing family that she loved so, so much, and it was like a perfect, |
| 1:46.9 | you know, scenario. And then her ex-husband stated that he no longer wanted family. It wasn't |
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