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How to Get Over Your Ex

Ep. 114 - When what you want feels impossible

How to Get Over Your Ex

Dorothy AB Johnson

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7577 Ratings

🗓️ 4 October 2021

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever felt like what you really really wanted in life was totally and completely 100% IMpossible? You're not alone. A part of getting over your ex means building a life bigger and better than the one you had with your ex. Many of my bravehearts get hung up on the idea that it's even possible. 

 

In today's episode, I share my technique called "thought shifting" that takes you from impossible to probable, no matter what feels impossible to you today will feel probable by the end of this episode. 

 

What to expect:

  • Understand what is keeping you in impossibility
  • Learn how to navigate from "impossible" to "probable" no matter what it is you really desire
  • Become the kind of person who has goals that are "as good as done"

Transcript

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0:00.0

You were listening to How to Get Over Your Ex episode number 114 when what you want feels impossible.

0:23.2

Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time.

0:25.4

I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy.

0:28.9

Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy.

0:34.9

Hello, my beautiful brave hearts.

0:37.0

How is everyone doing?

0:40.5

I am so excited to be here with you today.

0:49.4

I can already tell that this is going to be one of my favorite episodes I have ever recorded.

0:57.8

I had an amazing epiphany last week with some of the clients in the Get Over Your X program.

1:02.9

They were in week eight, venturing into week nine.

1:04.8

When I'm recording this, they are in week nine.

1:07.3

When it debuts, they're going to be done with the program.

1:15.4

And weeks nine through 12, we spend a lot of time looking at what is the life that's bigger and better than the one that you had with your ex. And a lot of times we start uncovering

1:21.7

very authentic desires that they might have pushed down and thought just wasn't possible for them.

1:29.2

And it's just such an amazing feeling and an amazing thing to see and watch them go through

1:35.4

when they come to the actualization of like, oh my gosh, I really do want this.

1:41.0

Like, I want a committed partner and a family.

1:45.7

I've been working at getting over this person and I just didn't even realize, like, this is what I really want, though. And that's

1:51.3

an amazing thing because once you recognize your authentic desire and what you truly want,

1:56.7

you go after it. And it's such an amazing thing. I'm so excited to talk about it and I've got so many

2:06.0

examples and I have an amazing tool you guys are going to learn today called thought shifting.

2:14.2

And it's something that I've been doing for a really long time now and just didn't recognize

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