Ep 114: 5 Ways We Talk Ourselves Into Sabotage
CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
Elizabeth Benton
4.9 • 2.7K Ratings
🗓️ 19 December 2015
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
Self-sabotage poses a huge threat to your goals and your health. Beyond that, it's incredibly frustrating. The key to overcoming it is to understand the ways we talk ourselves into sabotage.
Most people are so frustrated that they continuously set goals then get in their own way. In many cases, they don't even understand how or why it's happening.
How can you want something so bad yet continue to sabotage? Why are you getting in the way of something you want so badly?
I've found that there are 5 common arguments we use to talk ourselves into sabotage. In today's episode, I'll go through the ways we talk ourselves into sabotage and give you a worksheet and checklist to identify how to change the behavior.
Definitely listen to the full episode for an explanation of how we use these senseless (false) arguments and how to stop.
- I'll start tomorrow
- This one thing doesn't make a difference
- It's not working anyway
- I can make up for it later
- I've been so good (so I've earned it)
In the episode we talk about why these arguments are not only counterproductive but also completely untrue. I introduce a detailed strategy on how stop letting these lies sneak up on you and throw you off track.
We don't use these arguments because they are real or true. We use them because they give us what we want: permission to be be indulgent.
The most effective way to remove the power of these lies we tell ourselves is to identify:
- what they are
- when we use them
- that they are completely untrue and counterproductive
- positive affirmations with which to replace them
http://primalpotential.com/5-ways-we-talk-ourselves-into-sabotage/
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This is Primal Potential and I am your host, Elizabeth Benton. |
| 0:06.6 | From Education, Motivation and Implementation, we will bridge the gap between knowing and |
| 0:13.8 | doing so we can master fat loss naturally and help you reach your highest potential. |
| 0:21.5 | Let's get started. |
| 0:24.5 | Hello everybody and welcome back to the Primal Potential Podcast. |
| 0:28.1 | I am your host, Elizabeth Benton and today is an episode that nobody wants to miss and |
| 0:35.7 | it is because it goes through the way we talk ourselves into sabotage, the way we talk |
| 0:44.4 | ourselves into going off course when we don't really want to. |
| 0:49.6 | And I see this every single day with my clients and it's something that I personally really |
| 0:56.0 | struggled with for years and years and years and let's call a spade a spade if we can. |
| 1:02.3 | Self-sabotage is a real threat to your goals. |
| 1:06.6 | 99% of the time people don't reach their goals not because of some outside influence but |
| 1:12.6 | because of their own selves and that is so frustrating especially because most of us |
| 1:19.7 | aren't even aware of all of the ways we self-sabotage or why or how and we tend to feel |
| 1:26.5 | really crappy when we set goals and fail to meet them especially when the goals are important |
| 1:33.0 | to us like really important to our happiness, to our confidence, to our sense of well-being |
| 1:38.1 | and even more frustrating when we just don't understand why we continue to hold ourselves |
| 1:46.0 | back. |
| 1:47.0 | I've talked to so many people who say, I want this so bad, I just don't know why I can't |
| 1:52.5 | do it. |
| 1:53.5 | I'm so frustrated and we aren't even aware of what is going on. |
| 1:57.8 | It happens so quickly or so subconsciously that we're not able to investigate the behavior |
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