Empowering End-of-Life Decisions: A Compassionate Approach | Alua Arthur
The Lindsey Elmore Show
Lindsey Elmore
5.0 • 529 Ratings
🗓️ 14 May 2024
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
A frequent guest on TV and radio, Alua has been featured on CBS’s The Doctors and in Disney’s “Limitless” docu-series with Chris Hemsworth, as well as in national print media outlets, such as Vogue, InStyle, the Los Angeles Times, The Cut, The New Yorker, and the New York Times. She travels the country and world as a keynote speaker, addressing audiences at conferences, end-of-life organizations, Fortune 500 companies, universities, seminaries, senior citizens’ communities, and more.
Alua’s journey to death work started when her family fled a murderous coup d’etat in Ghana in the ‘80s – a time of chaos and fear that dramatically impacted her life and influenced her restless, peripatetic spirit. Every aspect of Alua’s fascinating life comes together in Briefly Perfectly Human: Making an Authentic Life By Getting Real About The End, her raw, no holds barred, honest, and frequently hilarious memoir poetically crafted to share her powerful message with people all around the world. Available on April 16, 2024, her story is a deeply soul-transformative story that encourages us to think about the often-taboo subject of our own mortality – and how embracing this reality can help us lead better, more fulfilling lives.
Topics covered in this episode:
Work-life Balance
Workplace Challenges
Self-care Strategies
Mental Health Support
Personal Experiences
Reality of Death
Medically Assisted Euthanasia
Importance of Autonomy
Impact of Medications
Regrets and Life Lessons
To learn more about Alua Arthur and her work, head over to www.goingwithgrace.com
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I cannot encourage you enough to go and pick up a copy of Briefly Perfectly Human: Making an Authentic Life by Getting Real About the End. It's a deeply transformative memoir that reframes how we think about death and how it can help us to lead better and more fulfilling and authentic lives.
Head to https://www.lindseyelmore.com/perfectlyhuman to pick up a copy today.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back, everybody, to this week's edition of the Lindsay Elmore show. |
| 0:03.8 | Today, we are going to be talking about how we can live a better life by simply facing the fact that all of us at some point will die. |
| 0:15.9 | I'm interviewing America's most visible death doula. |
| 0:21.1 | Alua Arthur spends her days helping people to confront the reality of their own death |
| 0:28.2 | and helps them to make a plan that honors their life, their loved ones, and what they would |
| 0:36.0 | ultimately want done at the end of their days. She sits with |
| 0:42.2 | people as regrets and fears and joys and affairs and the dim reality of what it simply is to be |
| 0:51.3 | an imperfect human being is finally all revealed. She helps people navigate the very |
| 1:00.1 | complicated system that is surrounding death. Even on today's show, she made me think of things |
| 1:09.6 | that even I have never thought of despite having a will, |
| 1:13.7 | a trust, of medical power of attorney, having discussed what I want done in my last days |
| 1:20.2 | extensively. And yet I am learning even more from today's show. This show comes out and is recorded at a time where I have |
| 1:33.6 | been affected by death many, many times in the very, very recent past. And as I record this today, I am about to go and give a speech |
| 1:49.2 | in honor of the man who paid for my undergraduate education, knowing full well that this will most |
| 1:57.7 | likely be the last time I will be able to see and honor him. |
| 2:04.0 | If we learn nothing else from today's show, |
| 2:08.6 | please take a moment to say the things that mean the most. |
| 2:14.6 | Tomorrow I will be attending a funeral, |
| 2:21.7 | and I missed an opportunity to tell this person just what a profound impact they had on an entire generation of girls. We have an opportunity |
| 2:32.9 | to show up and to show people how much we love them, and it does not have to wait until you are on your deathbed or someone else has already passed to bring out the best in us. |
| 2:50.9 | Don't wait until the monitors are beeping and loved ones have just passed on. |
| 2:58.1 | Say the things, mean the things, and really truly get out there and live your life. |
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