Emotional Abuse explained for your friends, family, attorney, therapist or anyone else that may need to know what you're experiencing

Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni

Mental Health, Lies, Emotional, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Society & Culture, Deception, Manipulation, Narcissism, Verbal, Abuse, Relationships

4.6 • 816 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2019

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Emotional abuse victims have a very difficult time trying to explain what's happening to them to friends and family. Often, loving, supportive people may side with the abuser because they simply can't see or believe that they are bad people. This leaves the victim feeling alone, with no one to turn to because their support system slowly disappears around them.

This episode is meant to be given to family, friends, your attorney, your therapist, or anyone else that doesn't understand the depth of control and manipulation happening in your relationship. Think of it as an emotional abuse and manipulation translation guide.

Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook on emotional abuse and manipulation, an assessment and healing guide for difficult relationships.

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0:00.0	Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior.
0:07.4	You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
0:10.9	That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity.
0:18.6	I'm your host, Paul Koliani.
0:30.9	Music power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliati. All right, welcome back to another episode of love and abuse.
0:34.6	This episode is not necessarily for the regular listener of love and abuse. This episode is not necessarily for the regular listener of love and abuse.
0:41.3	It is for friends and family and even professionals that the victim of emotional abuse and
0:51.2	manipulation have in their lives to maybe give them this episode to listen
0:58.0	to so that they understand.
1:00.0	Now, I did have an episode earlier that talked about what friends and family don't see
1:06.0	and how it's hard to explain to friends and family what's going on in your life if you're in an emotionally
1:12.6	abusive situation, for example. If you can't seem to explain what's happening, then it's hard to
1:19.8	convey the reality that you're going through, which can be unreal. So this is for anyone that is an emotionally abusive, coercive, manipulative, deceptive, toxic
1:32.6	relationship, any type of difficult relationship that just can't seem to convey exactly
1:39.3	what's happening in the relationship because their friends and family just don't see it.
1:45.0	I'm going to hear this all the time.
1:46.1	I just don't see that about him.
1:48.4	I just don't get it.
1:49.6	What you're saying about her is incorrect.
1:52.1	I just don't see it.
1:54.2	And it can become incredibly frustrating for the victim of emotional abuse and manipulation
1:59.7	and narcissistic abuse to talk about it in a way
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