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Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning

EFR 737: The Mindset to Fix Your Manhood, Level Up Your Marriage, Make Better Male Friends & Stop Being the Nice Guy with Adam Lane Smith

Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning

Chase Chewning

Healthcoach, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Wellness, Fitness, Humanoptimization, Resiliency, Holistic, Highperformance, Coaching, Biohack, Health, Military, Entrepreneurship, Mindset, Health & Fitness

5927 Ratings

🗓️ 30 August 2023

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

This episode is brought to you by JoyMode's Sexual Performance Booster and Legacy's For Today male fertility test kit.

Step into an exploration of masculinity and personal identity that promises to challenge your perception and expand your understanding of what it means to be a provider, a respected community member, and a modern man. My conversation with Adam Lane Smith promises to uncover the societal and personal rules that define us as men and investigates the struggle of staying authentic amidst external influences.

Adam is a transformative force in the field of personal development and relationships. Leveraging years of professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist, he has honed his craft as a highly sought-after Attachment Specialist and personal coach. From hardworking blue-collar families seeking to mend marital discord, to high-power executives striving for harmony in parenting, to millionaire CEOs navigating the intricate world of dating, Adam’s profound insights and advice have proven invaluable time and again.

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In this episode, you will learn...

  • The importance of exploring and understanding personal masculinity, including how external influences, such as fashion, can communicate our identity.
  • The significance of male bonding, the role it plays in shaping individual identity, and the consequences of its absence such as feelings of loneliness and isolation.
  • An insight into gender roles, relationships, and the often misconstrued concept of 'mansplaining', as well as a historical overview of the roles men and women have adopted in society.
  • The role of masculine and feminine energies in society and how a man needs to abide by his morals and values to maintain relationships.
  • The importance of accountability in cultivating strong relationships, the transformative power of fatherhood, and how to break free from the 'Nice Guy Syndrome'.

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0:00.0

The following is an operation podcast production.

0:04.0

If a man steps into it and starts leading without being resentful without whining

0:13.6

without going I did it for two weeks and you didn't sleep with me

0:17.2

when the guy does that now but when he steps in and says I'm gonna be me

0:20.5

I'm gonna be a man because I need to do it our family deserves it I don't care how you

0:24.6

respond wives gravitates to her and she can't even stop herself if a woman is in her

0:31.8

masculine you need to be in your masculine better than she is and she will be in her feminine almost every time.

0:37.0

The moment that I stop that, I can see the difference in her, I can feel the energy. It's exposing yourself,

0:45.6

differentiating and saying who you are.

0:47.3

You fix nice guy by not being a nice guy.

0:52.0

A lot of guys cannot find a woman because they don't know how to be a man.

0:55.6

I'm Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist and I am honored today to be here on

1:00.0

Everforward radio. This is your number one source for inspiring content from people who are

1:05.1

putting a purpose to their passion and truly living a life Ever Forward. I am your host

1:10.3

Chase Turning. This is Ever Forward Radio. Let's go let's go let's go.

1:25.7

guys listen up this one is especially for you but to all of the ladies out

1:31.0

there listening I would encourage you to maybe share this with a guy in your life or just sit back and listen to what Adam Lane Smith has to say about the current state of the modern man where we can be doing better for ourselves, where we can be doing better for our fellow man, and where we can be doing better for you, our female counterparts.

1:52.0

So get ready to journey into the essence

1:54.5

of masculinity and personal identity

1:57.6

with the one and only attachment Adam, Adam Lane Smith.

2:01.6

In this episode, we are gonna be taking an in-depth look at the rules

2:05.7

we live by as men, why it's essential to define our own rather than let others

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