We should go back to 1995.

It was like such a great time.

When I was in college in the mid-90s, and then I think about I lived in a dump of an apartment with mice and I had no money and I had no car and they were their own problems.

But you only remember what was great about that and you think about with the knowledge you have today.

So yeah, there were good times and I can remember.

But I am forgetting what happened an hour or two after that good time where I got into a jackpot of some time, some part.

That I'm forgetting.

So the lie can be not just necessarily a lie, but the omission of something.

It's dishonesty by omission because you forget the other things.

You're only remember the good nostalgia.

Welcome to the Sober Friends podcast.

My name is Matt Jay and over there is Steve.

And what we talk about are all the lies alcohol tells us.

Talk about recovery, getting better, what was like when we're out there.

But this alcohol is such a liar to us.

I'll tell you, I wasn't in danger this weekend, Steve, but I could feel the lies from alcohol. My son had a volleyball tournament in

Boston. The whole family was down for this one. That's another story altogether of me not liking having to curtail how I handle tournaments

to make up for my wife and the girls who run at a different pace than me.

But we're in the south end, the south, not the south end, but the seaport area.

Yep. Where there was nothing a few years ago, and now there are hotels and all, South, not the South End, but the Seaport area. Yeah.

Where there was nothing a few years ago, and now there are hotels and office buildings and all this stuff.

They're just popping up.

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