E232: Trick or Treat: The Bedroom Edition

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

This week’s episode is a little spooky, a little silly, and a whole lot of sexy. Since Halloween is tomorrow, we’re bringing you a “Trick or Treat: Smash or Pass” edition of Pillow Talks. We’re running through a list of playful, sometimes weird, and definitely conversation-starting ideas for you and your partner to try in the bedroom (or… maybe not). From holding water in your mouth during a BJ to wrapping your partner up like a mummy to switching positions every 60 seconds like it’s a HIIT workout… nothing is off-limits in this one. Some ideas are pure gold, some are questionable at best, and a few? Let’s just say they’re better left in the graveyard of “good intentions.” 💛 In this episode, you’ll hear: The spookiest sex trends we’ve ever been dared to try Which ones are worth a “smash” and which deserve a hard “pass” Why experimentation keeps things exciting — even if it’s a total fail How to decide what’s a hard pass vs. worth a try Why laughter and curiosity are the sexiest ingredients of all A few ideas that might just become your new Halloween tradition If your sex life could use a little more fun (and a few more giggles), this one’s your invitation to play. 🔥 Ready to learn new moves that actually work? Skip the spooky stuff and get straight to the good stuff inside The Ultimate Sex Guide, our fan-favorite resource that’ll help you feel confident, connected, and completely in control in the bedroom. You’ll get: Expert-backed techniques for better pleasure (solo and together) Real-life tips to improve communication and confidence Step-by-step guides to explore what really turns you on 👉 Grab The Ultimate Sex Guide and unlock your hottest tricks yet! http://vmtherapy.com/ultimate 🎧 Stay connected 📸 Follow us on Instagram → https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander 💌 Get our weekly emails with behind-the-scenes stories, expert tips, and a few good laughs → http://vmtherapy.com/subscribe 🎧 Never miss an episode! Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you listen to pods. ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS ========================== 👏Thanks Wild Alaskan. Get $35 off your first box of premium, wild-caught seafood. Get seafood you can trust. ➡︎https://wildalaskan.com/PILLOW 👏Thanks Cozy Earth. Use code PILLOWTALKS to get up to 20% off. And if you get a Post-Purchase Survey, make sure to let them know you heard about Cozy Earth right here!➡︎https://cozyearth.com 👏Thanks Masterclass. Our listeners get an additional 15% off any annual membership. ➡︎https://masterclass.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hold water in your mouth while giving a blow job.
0:04.0	Both of you wear AirPods and listen to different sexy playlist.
0:09.0	This is another one where I was like, what is the thought behind this?
0:12.0	Switch positions every 60 seconds like a hit workout.
0:17.0	I like that addition like a hit workout.
0:20.0	Send your partner outside. Start giving them a strip tease through the window that only they can see. Oh, I'm so glad they included that aside. And time how long it takes them to come back inside.
0:46.5	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:49.4	We're your host, Vanessa, and Zander Marin.
0:52.4	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:54.0	And I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups
0:55.1	and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
1:00.0	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical
1:05.1	relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
1:12.8	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:17.2	We are back with one of our favorite series from the podcast, Smash or Pass.
1:23.6	But also, trigger treat, bitches.
1:27.8	You really? You really just like blew the lead on that one.
1:33.3	Like, you have to explain that a little bit.
1:35.4	You can't just say trick-or-treat, bitches.
1:39.8	Like, that doesn't make any sense.
1:42.4	I mean, it's that time of year.
2:18.3	Right? Okay, what you meant to say? Everyone knows. Everyone knows it's coming. We thought, you know, oh, it's Halloween time. Like, let's just, instead of smash her pass, we'll call it, like, trick or treat. But you're going to, like, explain that a little bit. That's why I have you here for, right? That's why it's a two-person chop, this podcasting. Chob, two-person, shop. Okay, if you don't know, Smashy Pass. If you don't know Halloween. Here's what Halloween is. We might have a couple listeners. I mean, Halloween is a very American thing. I know it's spreading around the world, but think people know what it is. I know people know what it is. Okay. So if you haven't heard of
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