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The Not Old - Better Show

Dumped, Not Done: Suzy Hopkins on Unbreaking Your Heart After 50

The Not Old - Better Show

Paul Vogelzang

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7106 Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Dumped, Not Done: Suzy Hopkins on Unbreaking Your Heart After 50

The Not Old Better Show, Art of Living Interview Series

 

Welcome to The Not Old Better Show, Art of Living Interview Series. Today's episode is brought to you by Acorns.

Acorns is a financial wellness app that makes it easy to start saving and investing for your future. Acorns.com/NOB

 

Getting dumped after decades together can feel like the air goes out of the room. The empty chair at breakfast. The phone you shouldn't check. The question, "Who am I now?" If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

Suzy Hopkins knows the shock. After a 30‑year marriage ended, she and her daughter, New Yorker illustrator Hallie Bateman, created What to Do When You Get Dumped—a warm, witty, beautifully illustrated guide to unbreaking your heart.

We talk about the first 24 hours and the weeks that follow: drawing clear lines on calls, texts, and social; eating something warm; asking for help; walking every day; and trying one small new thing that reminds you you're still you.

This conversation honors later‑life love and loss. It speaks to anyone starting again at 50, 60, 70+, and to families who want to support with care and respect. Humor sits beside grief here—and both are welcome.

"Dumped, Not Done: Suzy Hopkins on Unbreaking Your Heart After 50." If you need a steady voice and a few practical steps, join us on The Not Old – Better Show with Paul Vogelzang. Today's episode is brought to you by Acorns.

Acorns is a financial wellness app that makes it easy to start saving and investing for your future. Acorns.com/NOB

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Not Old Better Show on radio and podcast, the show covering all things health, wellness, culture, and more.

0:11.5

The show for all of us who aren't old, were better. Each week we'll interview superstars, experts, and ordinary people, doing extraordinary things, all related to this wonderful experience

0:22.6

of getting better, not older.

0:24.8

Now, here's your host, the award-winning Paul Vogelsang.

0:33.8

Welcome to the Not Old Better Show Art of Living interview series. I'm Paul Vogelzang, and today's

0:39.6

episode is brought to you by Acorns. Acorns is a financial wellness app that makes it easy to start

0:45.4

saving and investing for your future. Check out Acorns.com slash NOB. More will be in our show notes.

0:53.8

As you listen to the beautiful theme music that plays softly underneath here,

0:59.0

let's talk about something many of us face, but rarely say out loud, getting dumped.

1:05.9

After decades together.

1:08.2

The shock, the empty chair at breakfast, the ache, that feels like it might

1:12.4

stop your heart? Susie Hopkins has been there. After a 30-year marriage ended without

1:19.5

warning, she found herself asking the questions so many in our audience have asked,

1:24.1

how do I take the first step? What now? Who am I? And who am I on my own?

1:31.7

From the beloved mother-daughter team behind What to Do When I'm Gone,

1:36.4

Susie and her daughter, New Yorker illustrator, Hallie Bateman, returned with what to do

1:42.5

when you get dumped a poignant, funny, and beautifully drawn guide to unbreaking your heart.

1:50.2

The book counts down from the moment you get the news,

1:53.8

minute by minute, day by day, offering practical steps and tender reminders.

2:01.1

Set boundaries with the phone and with the past.

2:04.6

Eat something warm.

2:06.6

Call a friend, take a walk.

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