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ManTalks Podcast

Dr. Robert Glover and Tony Endelman - Dissecting The New Roles, Needs, And Expectations Of Men

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.8591 Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2023

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Talking points: masculinity, dating, relationships, patriarchy, balance This is a hefty one, folks. The legendary Dr. Glover and acclaimed coach and writer Tony Endelman sat down with me to analyze the shifting roles, needs, expectations, and environments that men find themselves in. This is a great episode to listen to if you'd like a frank but broad-minded lens to look at the male experience with. A lot of what Dr. Glover, Tony, and I talk about are things we've seen again and again in clients, friends, and our own research. (0:00:00) - Intro(0:03:19) - What's happening to boys and men and why?(0:16:33) - Tony's perspective, and masculinity in the digital age(0:24:23) - Male relationships in dating and in general life(0:37:22) - Is modern dating a s***show?(0:49:13) - Conscious dating, emotional tension, and the friend zone Dr. Robert Glover, therapist, coach, speaker, and educator is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. The author of the groundbreaking, No More Mr. Nice Guy, the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, and the recently released, Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men world-wide transform their lives and get what they want in relationship, sex, and career. Tony Endelman is an author, blogger, entrepreneur, and certified transformational life coach. He is also certified in the Psychology of Happiness. His website has been named one of the top 100 personal development blogs. Tony was born and raised in Omaha, Nebraska, and graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison with a degree in communications. Tony currently lives in New Orleans. Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

It isn't until you quit, give it a fuck if people like you that they actually have a chance to start liking you. You know, I'll tell guys, you know, the most powerful thing you can do to be attractive to a woman is be yourself. And you go, I've been told that all my life, but me being myself doesn't seem to attract women to me. And I go, when is the last time you let anybody, anybody, especially an attractive woman, see the real you. What you do

0:23.4

behind closed doors, you know, how you think, what goes on, how many people do you really

0:28.9

let's see that. But it is that shadow of ourselves, the dark parts of ourselves, our flaws,

0:35.6

our imperfections, our insecurities, that's what actually makes

0:38.6

it's interesting people. All right. Tony, Robert, welcome to the podcast. How are you, Jen,

0:45.6

doing today? Tired. I heard so you both, you just launched a membership yeah tell me about that robert how did that go

0:55.9

because that sounds like that just went live yesterday it went live yesterday morning at 6 a.m. my time so uh

1:02.1

uh i i thought got up this morning at 7 a.m and oh what was i thinking that i scheduled an interview

1:10.2

the day after lunch? I could hear my

1:12.4

voice. There's not much left. It went absolutely great. It's a membership program for men. We're

1:18.1

building a worldwide community. I've been envisioning and working on it for a year and a half,

1:23.8

working on it for a year. Tony's one of my founding coach, has been working with me for almost a year on it. And, you know, last few weeks, of course, have been, you know, just the big push.

1:33.4

But it launched. The technology works. People are flowing in. They're happy. It's so, you know,

1:42.2

thankfully, yesterday launch day was a day of celebration, not a day of, oh, fuck, it's broken. What do we do? Yeah. So I think putting the work into it ahead of time, definitely paid off. So I'm, I'm in a very good mood. I'm exhausted, but the world is good. I'm happy. It's good to be here. Likewise.

2:01.4

Like, I mean, it's, I think it's one of those things, you know, launching a product or a service. It's almost like a really good workout afterwards. Uh-huh. It's like, you get the good workout and you're like, man, I'm tired. I'm exhausted, but holy crap, this feels good. So I get it. I get it.

2:17.5

I know you do.

2:19.0

Yesterday afternoon.

2:21.4

It was like

2:21.7

i could feel my body for the first time in months and every part of it hurt yeah none of it felt

2:27.5

bad it all felt like oh my body is so relaxed now i can actually feel what it feels like to to be in my

2:33.8

body so uh yeah it's it's it's good good if so relaxed now I can actually feel what it feels like to be in my body.

2:34.4

So, yeah, it's, it's good.

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