Welcome to Shrink for the Shy Guy.

This is the show for you if you are sick and tired of being held back by fear, self-doubt,

social anxiety, shyness, anything that's stopping you from you being you.

I'm going to share the most powerful tools and resources that I've been discovering over the last 15 years on

my journey to eradicate social anxiety and instill confidence, first in myself and then in

every single person that I meet on my journey.

You're going to learn these tools and how to apply them in your life now so that you

can become the most free, powerful, bold, authentic version of you.

Hey, welcome today's episode of the show. Today we're going to talk about being doubtless.

This is one of my favorite topics, so I'm excited to share it with you today. And by the end of this, you're going to talk about being doubtless. This is one of my favorite topics, so I'm excited to share it with you today.

And by the end of this, you're going to be able to use this for confidence in any area of life.

Think about this as like the top of the pyramid, and it trickles down.

So anywhere you want confidence, your social life, your dating life, your relationships, at work,

assertiveness, body language, making eye contact, being more boldly yourself, being more expressive,

being funny, or being less filtered, all of it is going to be affected by this. So, what is the this that I'm talking about? And if you heard a little crinkling in the background, you're going to find out what that is in just a minute. And if you didn't, there was a little crinkling in the background. And there might be during the recording this episode. And I'll explain why in a minute and it relates to being doubtless. So let's dig in right now. By the way, if you have not gone to check out the live events page for my website, go there now, go to social confidence center.com, and then check out the live events. We have another live event coming up called Unlimited Dating and Relationship Confidence. That's in October. That's going to be amazing. I want to see you there. You can also go to shrink for the shy guy.com. And on the side there, there's a link to that. And because that event, it's still the early bird right now, and coming to that is going to be transformative for your dating life, your sense of romantic confidence, you're feeling like you're lovable and worthy and desirable. Man, there's so much wounding and pain around this, and we're going to liberate that. So you can know deep down that, of course, someone would benefit from having you in their life. Of course, you're datable. Of course, you're beautiful. Of course someone want to spend their life with you. And then what do you think your results are when you approach dating with that kind of confidence. That's right. So go check that

out now. I love to see you there and join and do that experience with you. Have that experience. Do

that. We're going to do that together, you and me. Okay. Now, let's talk about doubtless. So

doubtless is a term to me that I love taking terms and loading them with more and more and more meaning so that when you hear the term all of a sudden, boom, it triggers a bunch inside of you. This has already happened with, say, the name of one of your best friends. You know, so let's say one of your best friends is named Jeff. And so you hear the name, someone says Jeff and you're going to think of that person right away. And all you're going to think of that person, you're going to be like, you love Jeff. And so you met someone else named Jeff. There might be a little bit of a transfer over of like, oh, Jeff, sounds like a good guy, right? Because you love this other Jeff. Another thing might be something like a sport that you really love, like snowboarding or something like that.

So when someone says the word snowboarding, you have all this meaning associated to it.

So I love doing that. I did that with the word almost, which stands for what?

If you don't know right now, almost is on my own side, on my own side no matter what.

That's my way of capturing how to never turn on yourself, how to stop berating yourself, stop attacking yourself, and start loving yourself right now unconditionally. That's almost. Another term, though, that I've been loading with meeting recently, there's more of that crinkling. You hear it? What's happening? What is that? It's a cliffhanger, I'll tell you in a minute, or a open loop, I should say.

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