Don't Let Them Determine Your Worth and Self-Esteem | Relationship Theory

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🗓️ 20 January 2023

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Living with insecurity, a lack of confidence, and a constant need of approval from your partner or others is never a healthy way to build a long-lasting and stable relationship. On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore why it’s crucial that the only person you rely on for validation, approval, and self-confidence is yourself. They discuss why you shouldn’t rely on others for validation, reasons you might be relying on others in the first place, and why feeling safe with your partner is crucial. SHOW NOTES: Validation | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to find your own self-validation. [0:29] Reasons | Tom shares theories to why you might seek validation from you partner. [3:17] Feeling Safe | Tom and Lisa discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner. [6:09] Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90 YouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH Podcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0 Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:23.7	I'm not going to lie, guys.
0:24.8	Let's just call a spade a spade.
0:26.6	We all want to be validated and we all want to be loved.
0:30.6	So I'm just going to say it.
0:31.4	That's the truth.
0:32.6	Now, that doesn't mean we should do things that negatively impact us because these are the things that we want.
0:38.3	It doesn't mean that we should be led by external validation.
0:41.3	But I think it's important to actually address the reality that being loved and feeling validated feels freaking good.
0:48.3	It feels good to have your partner cheer you on.
0:51.3	But it actually also can be detrimental to your relationship.
0:57.7	The hubby and I just discuss why validation from your partner can potentially be problematic.
1:04.9	You will learn who the person that should be validating you is and who you need to be
1:09.8	turned into for that boost of confidence
1:11.7	and it's not who you think so enjoy this episode of relationship theory and if it did bring
1:17.5	your value share it with your partner tell your homies please do subscribe and rate and review let me
1:24.0	know what you think of this episode and then also what other subjects you want to hear
1:28.4	from me and the hubs.
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