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Seasoned Dialogue with Lisa-Marie

Don't be the Emergency Contact for Chaos

Seasoned Dialogue with Lisa-Marie

Lisa Marie

Guidance, Self Talk, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Podcast About Mental Health, Affirmations, Healing, Religion & Spirituality, Podcast About Inspiration

5.0735 Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2025

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Send us Fan Mail When we step in to save someone from their lessons, we interfere with their growth and accountability. Challenges teach resilience, wisdom, and self-awareness, but rescuing someone can rob them of those essential lessons and foster dependency. Intervening often depletes our own energy, creates unhealthy boundaries, and disrupts the natural order of consequences meant to guide them. True support means encouraging others to navigate their challenges while trusting the process. ...

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0:00.0

Hey, hey, hey, everyone. Hoping everyone is good. Hoping everyone is well. Y'all already know.

0:05.1

This episode is for people with open hearts, big hard space to just let people in, just the, you know, the ones who have nurturing spirits, the one who love hard, the one who intervenes in situations that many times don't have nothing to do with them.

0:18.8

It's just part of the fact that you don't want to have and witness people receive a blow

0:24.6

in their life.

0:26.8

But, you know, often those blows are the redirection that people need in order for them

0:30.6

to get themselves together and change.

0:33.0

So if you are the person who allows people to take you in you often feel sorry for people

0:41.2

and it's their mistakes that they make you bell them out give them money provide them with

0:47.5

things when you know your heart of hearts they ain't trying oh my goodness this episode is for you

0:53.4

i'm gonna cover you in prayer as well but i'm also going

0:58.2

to soothe your loving heart i'll give you some facts i suffered through this for a long time

1:06.6

and baby when i got tired i got tired i just let the gavel down and said enough is enough.

1:13.6

And I always say when you get tired enough, you'll stop.

1:16.8

You'll stop letting people mistreat you.

1:19.5

You'll stop allowing people to just do you wrong.

1:23.3

And as much as people say, you know, reciprocity is not something that we all need at a certain time.

1:30.5

Reciprocity is a course of action, right?

1:33.0

I give you give.

1:34.4

Not immediate, but what I'm saying is if I can be the soldier for you, when I am weak, can you be that soldier for me? Okay, all right, let's get into the episode.

1:49.0

I want us to stop being people's go-to and they mess up. You know, many of us are equipped with

1:55.5

the tools to understand the concept of consequence. This excludes anyone who doesn't have the

2:00.0

capacity to think due to deficiencies

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