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The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

Don’t Be Soft | Mindset Monday

The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

Tom Ferry

Education, Business, Self-improvement

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2023

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

So you had a bad day… No one cares. So you don’t feel like performing today… No one cares. This isn’t meant to be mean or insensitive. It’s meant to be encouraging, because once you realize this, it’s easier to see where your energy is better focused. In this episode of Mindset Monday, I’m going to show you the mindset hack for getting tough.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Don't be soft don't be soft don't be soft the number of times I get a text

0:08.8

an email someone will say to me you just don't understand how I'm just you know

0:12.0

like I didn't sleep well last night and you know I've got this going on in my life

0:15.1

and I've got that going on my life and I literally want to just grab my

0:17.7

shoulders and say you have no problems stop being soft I wake up every day

0:23.6

sometimes I don't feel great sometimes I make them say I'm looking at my or

0:26.0

ring app and it tells me you need to take a day off and I remind myself no

0:30.2

one cares every day I have to show up and be unapologetically myself be my best

0:36.8

regardless of what's going on around me and I'm saying this to you as a

0:40.9

reminder no one cares you at a bad a bad day no one cares about your bad

0:47.0

sleep the night before no one cares about the situation you just had an

0:50.4

experience in your life because everybody's dealing with their own stuff now

0:53.8

I'm not taking anything away from the things that happen to us that impact

0:57.2

emotionally I'm reminding you that mental toughness is the ability to do your

1:02.3

job every single day regardless of what's going on around you regardless of

1:06.5

what's going on around you I'm gonna do my job with inspired action I'm gonna

1:09.6

deliver my best self every single day and whether I've got a take on an alter

1:14.3

ego or there I just have to compartmentalize and push that stuff aside I just

1:18.5

remind myself every day no one cares no one cares go do your thing serve the

1:23.2

people you love work your face off help clients that you love and at the end

1:27.6

of the day you will be happy

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