The bird show Abby you want to give singles a pat on the backs is you know some people just understand how hard it is out there

Yeah, I do so over the week and I had posted this

Tiktok that had really resonated with me and a lot of my single girlfriends and so I decided you know what I have a lot of single girls

That follow me. I'm gonna share it and see if it resonates with them as well and to my surprise my DMs

flooded after I posted it every

Like every Dn that I open was the same remark of oh my gosh this hit me right where it hurts

This is exactly how I feel. I wish people that have been out of the single game for a long time could acknowledge

Some of the struggle that comes with being a single person out in the world and not having a partner to rely on

So I'll share the clip with you and then I will continue to talk about why you just really hit so hard with singles

This one's for all the single girls out there because we don't hear this nearly enough

If you're going to work every day then coming home and cleaning your own house cooking your own meals paying your own bills

I want you to know how proud of you. I am no partner to split rent with or to bring you coffee and bed or cook dinner for you when you've had a horrible work day

I built furniture together or remind you that you did in fact blow that candle out

I know so many women who have jumped from relationship to relationship never truly stopping to be single for any extended period of time

And I think it's because of fear, but they'll also never know how rewarding it is. I got very distracted by the sex

I know. I promise being a single role does not come with a jazz quartet

There is not a saxophonist following me around my apartment, but this video is like this girl

You know she's trying to have one of those aesthetic type of cleaning videos where she's tidying up her a little

Part and she's cooking dinner for herself and it makes it almost romanticizes how it would look to be single

But really it's like me at 2 a.m. on a Saturday eating men and Jerry's like it's not cute

But I was listening to this and it really hit with me especially this week because I've had so many small instances of being like

Like oh crap moments like I'm out here by myself and if this had actually happened

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