Welcome to the awesome marriage podcast, a place for honest conversations and practical advice on how to build an awesome marriage.

I am your podcast producer and co-host, Lindsay Few.

On the show will be our host, Dr. Kim Kimberly.

Dr. Kim is a marriage counselor and has been married for over 50 years. His passion is to help you

strengthen your most intimate relationship. We get a lot of questions about staying in a really

tough marriage. And recently several people have asked specifically about their unbelieving spouse being unrepentant because they know that a Christian spouse will stay in the marriage no matter what.

So today we're talking about the question, does being a Christian mean staying married no matter what?

One person recently asked us, do you believe that God wants me to stay in an unhappy and sometimes abusive relationship?

So Dr. Kim, what would you say to this person?

Yeah, I would say, I think the key word for me and what that person ask is the word abusive.

And I just feel from counseling couples and people for all the years, no one should stay in an environment that is unsafe for them.

Abuses against the law, and there's nothing unbiblical that I see about separating from an abuser.

I was looking through the law on it.

And just to quote a little bit, it said, when spouses use physical violence, threats, emotional abuse, harassment,

or stalking to control the behavior of the partners they are committing domestic violence so it is

if no one has the right goes on and said no one has the right to hit or threaten you with violence if

they if they do they're breaking the law and so i think they're also the deal about you know

the laws are there in place for a

reason.

And I think God's clear that he wants us to honor the laws of the land.

And I think it's just, I think people get confused sometimes and think that they're just

supposed to stay in no matter what.

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