Do You Worry You’re Undateable? with Relationship Scientist Logan Ury

Girls Gotta Eat

Ashley Hesseltine

Relationships, Society & Culture, Dating, Comedy, Sex, 977170

4.6 • 29.2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2023

⏱️ 106 minutes

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Summary

One of our most popular guests – behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author Logan Ury – is back for another incredible conversation. We’re discussing the feeling of being “undateable” due to family trauma, past relationship baggage, an STI, being a virgin, etc. and how to own your story and share it with a potential partner. Logan breaks down why vulnerability is the primary thing that makes people feel close to you and how to open up more on dates, and we also discuss her experience living on a commune with her partner and all their friends, and the importance of OSOs (other significant others). Before Logan joins us, we’re catching up on Rayna’s hot new neighbor and Ashley’s nail journey, and we’re sharing our feelings about officially moving from NYC to LA. Plus, we have recs. Enjoy!

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0:00.0	people are out there feeling like they're undatable, feeling like they have something about
0:05.1	them that makes them not worthy of love.
0:08.0	And in fact, everyone can tell their story in a way that's really empowered where you
0:12.4	feel powerful, not powerless.
0:14.5	Hi guys, welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat.
0:32.7	It was all, it's not leaf fat.
0:35.2	Brought him up here.
0:36.2	He just as soon as we did the high guys, he was like, for that reason I'm out.
0:39.4	I really appreciate it though that he made a cameo.
0:41.6	He's like, I've done my time.
0:43.8	He looked so cute last week.
0:45.5	He was really modeling.
0:47.5	Aww.
0:48.5	Yeah, okay.
0:49.5	Really living his best life on my couch.
0:52.0	Big day today, we'll talk about it.
0:53.6	What's happening today?
0:55.8	I'm on my long nail journey.
0:57.5	I can't believe you didn't text me at the place, leaving the place.
1:03.1	You were busy for one.
1:04.5	I feel like I am nail culture.
1:06.7	You are.
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