understand that this is a thinking trap and you want to stop and ask yourself, okay,

if I was to start today right now, would I choose this person again knowing that I cannot recoup

the investments of the past and if it's a no then there's a big sign for you.

Hi guys, hi, welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat coming to you from my couch!

Ever week it's like we're the back to our roots. Yeah, where are they gonna be? This couch is so nice.

It's it's sinkhole. It's right into a sinkhole but it's really nice. It's exactly what I wanted. It's not

the highest of high quality but for the shape and the size and the s sinkhole but this couch has one

to two good ears in it and I'm fine with that and I knew what I was getting into. Well, we won't

record here very long because as we speak today, the Girls Gotta Eat couch from New York is on a

truck on the way to LA finally. All of our original stuff is coming out here and we're gonna do our own

studio. Very happy about it. At Raina's House which if you want a little BTS on the podcast,

basically when we started this in 2018, I lived in East Village, Raina lived in Park Slow,

a huge journey, a long distance relationship. Forty five minutes, yeah. And I learned how to

start a podcast, edit the podcast and was like, oh, this shit's gonna be a lot of my time so I

basically was like, I will edit this podcast. I will dedicate my life to it if you come to me and

that was the deal we struck up. Yeah. And ever since then, we had studios, we had this, we had that

but we always did it like on my turf because I was the one that was like putting all the hours into

it and whatnot and that was like our agreement. And now we will be on Raina's turf but I don't edit

as much anymore. It's so funny. So I was walking with Kate over to her house from your house the

other night and she was like, she wanted to lie. Yeah, because you were dinner problem as you

ordered sushi and you sent it to her house. And in what world like you accidentally sent

food to the wrong house, if you can be back in six minutes with the food. Yes. Her husband opened

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