phone off friends clue liz she was officially missing and suddenly it was on me you know i was the

person responsible for this person's life her mom didn't panic she stayed calm almost too calm

but she did turn to me for the next move and it was like she thought i knew what the hell i was

doing and to be honest, I didn't.

I mean, I've never been responsible for someone's life like this.

My chest was on fire.

My head was spinning.

And I'd never been in this situation before.

And suddenly it was on me to fix it.

And I replayed every session like a reel I couldn't stop.

Every time I told myself, she was strong enough, sober enough, ready to transition.

Every time I believed her, she said she could handle it.

You know, and now she was gone, missing.

A human under my care vanished into the city.

And my stomach dropped. My skin went cold my i thought my career

was over and also like with this family if they sue me oh my god my life can be over right

i'm john kim a licensed therapist who used to be a miserable fuck before going on a hero's journey and turning expired relationships into revelations.

I use my story to help others come with you instead of at you, unrehearsed on purpose, because self-help doesn't have to be polished or complicated.

Just honest.

On today's episode, I'm going to share with you a story about a client that I still carry because what happened with me and this client was traumatic.

And it's a chapter of my new book titled,

shit, your therapist would never tell you. I'm writing this book because I want to not only

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