Do No Harm- Podcast #575
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Todd and Cathy Adams
4.9 • 637 Ratings
🗓️ 24 November 2020
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
Todd and Cathy discuss the double bind of “do no harm”, in that all decisions, even educated and well-thought out choices, may impact some negatively. They discuss the positive impact of empathy and the danger of gaslighting, and share Anne Lamott’s theories around hatred and self-understanding.
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| 0:00.0 | Do do do do do do do do. |
| 0:06.1 | Here we go. |
| 0:06.6 | My name's Todd. |
| 0:07.1 | This is Gabi. |
| 0:07.7 | Welcome back to another episode of, excuse me, Zen Parenting Radio. |
| 0:10.8 | This is podcast number 575. |
| 0:13.8 | Why listen to Zen Parenting Radio? |
| 0:15.1 | Because you'll feel outstanding. |
| 0:17.7 | And always remember our motto, which is the best predictor of a child's will-being is a |
| 0:21.7 | parent's self-understanding. On today's show, we're going to talk about three simple words, |
| 0:27.5 | do no harm. And the double bind of do no harm. And the old, the classic double bind. |
| 0:34.3 | You'll double bind. For those of you don't know what a double bind is, I'm right there with you, but hopefully |
| 0:39.2 | we'll know it by the end of this podcast. |
| 0:42.3 | But first, Kathy does something called Zen Parenting Moment, and we're going to talk about |
| 0:47.5 | one specifically on gaslighting, and I'm going to read it, and then we're going to have a quick |
| 0:52.7 | back and forth about it. |
| 0:54.0 | You ready, sweetie? Are you going to read the, and then we're going to have a quick back and forth about it. You ready, sweetie? |
| 0:54.8 | Are you going to read the whole thing or just parts? |
| 0:56.3 | I cut out one paragraph. |
| 0:57.6 | Okay, because it's a longie. |
| 0:58.9 | Here we go. |
| 0:59.4 | So just buckle up. |
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